Los izinjana Ziibhola ezithandekayo ezinoboya ezenza ukuba sincume ngabo bonke ububi abazenzayo. Kodwa kukho isimilo esingenakwamkelwa, kwaye leyo kukulunywa. Ngelixa besebancinci abanako ukusenzakalisa kakhulu; Okwangoku, kufuneka ucinge ukuba kwiinyanga ezimbalwa baya kuba ngabantu abadala, kwaye emva koko baya kuba namandla ngakumbi emazinyweni abo.
Ke, ukuyiphepha, kuya kufuneka uqale ubaqeqeshe ukusukela ngosuku lokuqala. Fumanisa ungayithintela njani injana ekulumleni.
Iinjana zinengqondo efana nesiponji, oko kukuthi, zifunxa yonke into ngokukhawuleza. Kungenxa yoko le nto kunyaka wokuqala wobomi lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuba inja ifunde indlela yokuziphatha. Kwaye ungaqala (enyanisweni, kuya kufuneka uqale) kwangoko: nje ukuba ufike ekhaya ngosuku lokuqala.
Uyithintela njani injana yam ekulumleni?
Xa siza kuqeqesha inja, nokuba indala kangakanani, kubalulekile yiba nomonde kwaye uhlale rhoqo. Wonke umntu unesantya sakhe sokufunda, esinokuthi sicothe okanye sikhawuleze, into engafanele kuthathwa njengebalulekileyo. Ukuze injana ifunde ukungaluma, kufuneka kwenziwe ntoni oku kulandelayo:
- Ngalo lonke ixesha ubona ukuba uzokuluma okanye into ongayifuniyo (umzekelo, izihlangu, imiqamelo okanye nantoni na), mxelele uQINISEKILE kodwa ngaphandle kokukhwaza kanye ngaphambi kokuba ndenze.
- Emva koko mnike into yokudlala anokuyihlafuna, Njengebhola okanye itray.
Phinda amaxesha amaninzi njengoko ubona ukuba isilwanyana sizimisele ukuluma into esingafanelekanga.
Ixesha elingaphezulu, uyabona ukuba injani iyeke ukuyenza doing. Ngumba nje wokuba nomonde, ukunyamezela kunye nokuhlonipha inja.