Xa ungafuni ukuba uboya obuncinci bube neenjana, eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze aphoswe. Ngexesha longenelelo, amadlala okuzala aya kususwa, ukuze kungabikho kuphela umngcipheko wokukhulelwa kuphela, kodwa ne-bitch ayisayi kuphinda ibe shushu.
Ke, ungonwabela ubudlelwane obukhetheke kakhulu, kuba ukuba iyafundiswa kwaye inobuhlobo sinokubukhulula epakini okanye elunxwemeni ngaphandle kokukhathazeka nangantoni na; Kwaye loo nto ayithethi ukuba ihlala iyemile 🙂. Kodwa, ukuze yonke into ihambe kakuhle, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzitotosa ngexesha lasemva kokusebenza. Ke ngoko, ukuba umane uqhuba nje ukuba umhlobo wakho asebenze, siya kukuxelela uyikhathalele njani inja esandula ukuthatha inyathelo.
Mse kwigumbi elithe cwaka
Xa sele usekhaya, into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kuku Mshiye egumbini apho anokuthula khona kwaye aphumle, ngakumbi ukuba usephantsi kwefuthe le-anesthesia. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umbeke ebhedini entofontofo kwaye umgqume ngengubo, kuba ade avuke ngokupheleleyo akasayi kukwazi ukulawula ubushushu bomzimba wakhe kwaye, nokuba kusehlotyeni, angabanda. Ngesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba kungabikho kuyilo lubandayo. Ewe unakho ukufudumeza (enyanisweni kuyakwenza kakuhle), kodwa ungavuli ifeni okanye uvule imeko yomoya, okanye uvule iifestile.
Kwimeko apho kukho abantwana okanye ezinye izilwanyana ekhaya, de inja ingakwazi ukuhamba, kuya kuba ngcono ukuba ungamphazamisi.
Nika ukutya namanzi
Nangona kwangolo suku inye into eqhelekileyo kukuba akafuni kusela okanye ukutya, ukusuka kwesesibini uya kuyenza kwakhona. Ke, Kuya kufuneka ushiye umntu osela kwaye aflishe ngokupheleleyo, ukuba kunokwenzeka nge ukutya kwenja emanzi. Ukutya okomileyo akunuki okanye kunambitheka njengamathini, ngenxa yoko usenokungafuni.
Akufuneki umnyanzele ukuba atye, kodwa ukuba ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezimbini kudlulile kwaye akenzanga njalo, kuyakufuneka ukumsa kugqirha wezilwanyana kungenjalo impilo yakho ingaba sengozini.
Ungamshiyi yedwa
Ubuncinci iiyure zokuqala ezingama-24 emva kotyando, akufuneki umshiye yedwa nangaliphi na ixesha. Kungenzeka ukuba, uya kuchitha ixesha elininzi elele, kodwa kulula kuye ukuba ekugqibeleni azenzakalise ukuba akukho mntu umjongileyo. Ukongeza, ufuna umntu oza kuba ecaleni kwakhe ukuze amgcine enkampanini kwaye amnike uthando.
Ukuba kufuneka uphume endlwini, umzekelo, uyokusebenza, cela umntu ukuba abe naye.
Uthintela amanxeba okukhotha
Emva kongenelelo, ugqirha wezilwanyana unokuba ubeke ikhola ka-Elizabethan kuye, kodwa ukuba akunjalo, mcele ayifake okanye thenga enye kwiivenkile zezilwanyana. Olunye ukhetho kukufumana iphedi yentamo e-inflatable, eya kukuthintela ekubeni ujike intloko, okanye unxibe isikipa.
Kukulungele ukungakhothwanjengoko amanxeba enokosuleleka. Amanxeba asempilweni abonakala omile, ngaphandle kokukhutshwa kwinxeba elisikiweyo. Kwimeko apho kunuka kakubi, ubofu okanye igazi liyaphuma, kwaye ukuba inja ikhangeleka ilusizi okanye ingenalo uluhlu, kufuneka isiwe kugqirha wezilwanyana ukuze ahlolwe kwaye anyangwe.
Kwakhona, Kuya kufuneka umnike iipilisi zentlungu emiselwe yingcali.
Buyela kwinkqubo yakho yemihla ngemihla, kodwa ngokuzola
Emva kweentsuku ezine okanye ezintlanu, eyona nto iqhelekileyo kukuba inja ifuna ukubuyela kwisiqhelo sayo. Oku kuthetha ukuba uyakufuna ukuphuma, uyokudlala,… ngamafutshane, ukuze uphile njengenja 🙂. Kodwa kuba utyando lusekhona kutshanje Kuya kufuneka umjonge kancinci kwaye umthintele ukuba angonzakali. Ke, kuya kufuneka:
- Mncedise angene aphume emotweni.
- Mkhuphe ukhe uhambe, kodwa uhambe ngeendlela ezimfutshane ezingekho ngaphezulu kwemizuzu elishumi.
- Musa ukudlala ngokurhabaxa.
Ke, kancinci kancinci, ungabuyela kubomi bakho obuqhelekileyo.