Ukukhonkotha kwezinja ngamanye amaxesha kungacaphukisa, kwaye ukuba sinabamelwane singaphetha ngokuba neengxaki. Kodwa endaweni yokuba nomsindo ngesilwanyana kwaye usiphathe ngokungafanelekanga, Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sime kwaye sicinge ukuba kutheni ekhonkotha. Kungale ndlela kuphela esinokuthi siziphephe ezo meko sinokungazithandi kakhulu.
Ke ukuba uyafuna ukwazi uyimisa njani inja yam ukuba ingakhonkxiNgeli xesha siza kuthetha ngesihloko sinomdla malunga nolwimi oluthile lwezinja.
Ngaphambi kokuba siqale, ndingathanda ukukuxelela into endicinga ukuba ibaluleke kakhulu: ngekhe ubenenja engakhonkxi ebomini bayo. Ukukhonkotha yindlela yabo yokudlulisa umyalezo, nokuba kungokunye izilwanyana okanye kuthi. Kuyinyani ukuba kukho izinja ezikhonkotha kakhulu, kwaye zikho nezinye ezithetha kakhulu, kodwa zonke ziyakhonkotha. Nangona kunjalo, Ungayinqanda njani inja ukuba ingakhonkxi kakhulu?
Impendulo ilula kodwa inzima ngaxeshanye: umphulaphule. Ndiyazi, ngale nto kubonakala ngathi khange ndithethe nto, kodwa kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba nge-bark nganye akathethi nto. Umzekelo, ukuba uphumile endlwini kwaye nje ukuba uvale umnyango uyakhonkotha, ukuxelela ukuba ubuyele kuye; Ukuba usandula ukubona umhlobo kwaye umkhonkothe ngokungxolayo evuya umsila ngolonwabo, uyamxelela ukuba ufuna ukudlala naye. Ekugqibeleni, kuya kufuneka uhlalutye imeko nganye ukuze wazi ukuba kutheni ikhonkotha kwaye uhambisa myalezo mni.
Amaqhinga okanye iindlela zokunciphisa ukukhonkotha kwenja zininzi, ezizizo ukuzivocavoca umzimba kunye nengqondo, ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye, nokumvumela ukuba asebenzisane nezinye izinja, abantu, iikati, ... Ukuba sihambahamba okanye, kungcono, ukuba sibaleka nomhlobo wethu, ukuba sizisebenzisa kakuhle iiyure esizichitha naye, kwaye ukuba simthatha kumntwana injana simsa kwindawo apho kukho ezinye izilwanyana nabantu , Inja iya kuzola kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, yonwabe.