Ngamanye amaxesha sinyanzelekile nika ibhotile kwezinye iinjana abasanda kuzalwa. Isenokwenzeka kukuba umama wabo uyabagatya okanye ngenxa yokuba bebalahlile nje emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, nto leyo iseyinyani ebuhlungu nanamhlanje. Kwimeko enjalo, kufuneka siyazi into emasiyenze kwaye singayenzi, ukuze iinjana zikhule zomelele kwaye zisempilweni.
Ukuzondla ngebhotile akusoloko kunzima, kodwa kuya kufuneka wazi ezinye iinkcukacha, ezinje ngento Ubisi kufuneka unike, kuba ayifanelanga nayiphi na enye okanye leyo inikwe iintsana. Izinja okanye iikati zineemfuno ezahlukeneyo zesondlo ekufuneka zigutyungelwe yimveliso elungileyo.
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile Sazise malunga nezinto sifuna ntoni. Ingakumbi ibhotile enengono encinci, efanelekileyo kubantwana. Ngokwesiqhelo banamanyathelo aliqela okuvumela ubisi olungaphezulu okanye oluncinci ukuba luphumelele, kwaye sinokulawula njengoko sibona. Ubisi luza lungumgubo, kwaye kufuneka luxutywe namanzi asebhotileni kwaye kufudunyezwe, ukuze lunikezwe xa kushushu.
Kukho izinja ezitya kakubi kwaye ezinye zitya ngcono. Ngokubanzi, bayaqaphela xa benelisiwe, kodwa xa ungathandabuzeki, jonga ngcono ukuba ubanike kangakanani ngokobungakanani babo kwaye banexesha elingakanani Ngokomgaqo badla qho kwiiyure ezimbini Ubuncinci ubuncinci, kwaye njengoko besitya kakhulu njengoko bekhula babekwenza oko kutya ngakumbi. Into enzima ngeli xesha kukuzimasa rhoqo emva kweeyure ezimbini, kuba kufuna ukuba umntu lowo abe sekhaya rhoqo.
Emva kokubanika ibhotile kufuneka zikhulule. Umama wabo uyabakhotha ukuze bazenze, kodwa xa kungekho le okanye enye inja ukuba ibe ngumongikazi, singasebenzisa izisuli ezimanzi kwaye sihlikihle loo ndawo ukuzikhulula, kuba ngokwesiqhelo abahlali bekwenza bodwa kwaye kunzima ukwenzela bona.