Ngamanye amaxesha umhlobo wethu othandekayo usenokuziva esoyika kakhulu okanye esoyika, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ebehleli nenja angayaziyo ukuba mayiyiphathe njani okanye ngenxa yokuba bedubula iziqhushumbisi okanye iirokethi. Ukumbona enje, impendulo yokuqala esihlala sinayo kukumthatha kwaye sizame ukumqinisekisa ngokungathi ngumntu, into esingafanele kuyenza.
Izinja azingobantu, ke indlela ezenza ngayo kufuneka zohluke. Ngale nto engqondweni, ndiza kukuxelela uzola njani inja.
Ndazi njani ukuba inja yam iyakhathazeka kwaye / okanye iyoyika?
Inja engenalo elona xesha lilungileyo lemini iya kuba sisilwanyana eso ingabonisa nayiphi na kwezi ndlela zokuziphatha:
- Ukukhonkotha ngokuphindaphindiweyo
- Ukugquma
- Iindlebe zakhe zibuyile kwaye iinwele zakhe zime ecaleni.
- Hamba usiya kwelinye icala uye kwelinye
- Fumana indawo yokuzimela
- Umsila uyigcina phakathi kwemilenze
- Ungabonisi mdla kukutya okanye iithoyi
Ungenza ntoni ukukunceda?
Xa inja yethu inje, into ekufuneka siyenzile yile umkhuphe kuloo meko. Umzekelo, ukuba sihamba ngequbuliso umntu othile ephosa iziqhushumbisi kufutshane, isenza inja ikhathazeke, into esiya kuyenza kukuya kwindawo ekhuselekileyo kwaye siphose ilekese emhlabeni ukuze izifumane. Ukuthimla, yindlela ekuthiwa lubizwa ngayo olu qheliselo, ngumthambo opholisa uboya kakhulu.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba okwenzekileyo kukuba woyike kakhulu i-fireworks kunye / okanye iindudumo, eyona ndlela yokuzola iya kuba kukudlala umculo opholileyo. Akunakuze, naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko, kufuneke simsuse ekuzimeleni ngenkani, kuba ukuba siyenzile ibiya kuziva imbi kakhulu. Into esiza kuyenza kukuqhubeka ngesiqhelo, simbonise ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo, kwaye simnike ukuphatha okanye into yokudlala ayithandayo.
Kuphela ukuba unexesha elibi ngokwenene, oko kukuthi, akafuni kutya okanye sele eqalile ukuba ndlongondlongo, kuya kufuneka simnike izinto zokuphumla okanye uthethe nengcali.