Izinja zizilwanyana ezingenzelwanga ukuhlala zodwa. Ukusuka kwimvelaphi yabo, ii-canids bezisoloko zihlala kumaqela osapho, kwaye yinto engatshintshanga leyo. Kodwa ke, ngenxa yesingqisho sethu sobomi abanakukhetha ngaphandle kokufunda ukuba ngaphandle kwethu okwethutyana, nangona oku, kufuneka sibafundise, kuba kungenjalo inokuphela inexhala lokwahlukana, nto leyo engaphaya kokubandezeleka okugqithisileyo okubonakalayo xa simshiya ekhaya yedwa.
Ke ndiza kukuxelela ungaxelela njani ukuba inja yam inexhala lokwahlukana, Kwaye ndiza kukunika iingcebiso zokutshintsha imeko.
Imiqondiso yokuba inja yakho inexhala lokwahlukana
Xa sinenja eziphatha kakuhle xa sikunye nayo, kodwa njengenja evukelayo xa singekho, ngokuqinisekileyo sinokuba nesilwanyana esinexhala lokwahlula ekhaya. Xa ndisithi "inja evukelayo" ndiyathetha ukuba ikrwempa iingcango, ihlafuna yonke into eyifumanayo (kwanefenitshala), itshabalalisa izinto zayo zokudlala, yonakalise izityalo zangaphakathi, ... ke, xa ufika ekhaya awuyazi (ekhaya).
Inja enale "ngxaki" icinga ukuba ayisokuze iphinde ibone umntu wayo, ke yenza konke okusemandleni ayo ukuyifumana, ingaphumeleli, indawo apho inokuthi ikhangele khona. Njengoko sibona, ayisiyiyo eyokuba akayazi ukuba yedwa, kodwa yile akafuni ukohlukana nomntu wakhe.
Ungenza ntoni ukukunceda?
Into yokuqala ekufuneka siyikhumbule kukuba akufuneki simbethe okanye simngxolise. Oku kuya kukukhathaza ngakumbi, kuyenza mandundu imeko. Kwaye ayizukunceda nganto ukuba simgcina evalelwe ehokweni, okanye ukuba sizisa enye inja ukumenza azive ngcono. Kufuneka sihlale siyikhumbula loo nto into ayifunayo kukuba ngaphandle kwethu.
Ke, into ekucetyiswa ukuyenza kukuguqula indlela oziphethe ngayo. Njani? Ngokusisiseko singamhoyi imizuzu engama-30 ngaphambi kokumka kwethu, kwaye simgcine exakekile xa singekho, ngeethoyi ezifakwe ukutya umzekelo. Ngokukwanjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uwachithe onke amandla akho ngaphambi kokuba sihambe. Ngale ndlela, ukuthatha uhambo olude okanye ukubaleka yimisebenzi eya kuza iluncedo.
Kwimeko apho kungekho kuphuculwa, ndincoma Cela uncedo kumqeqeshi wenja isebenza kakuhle.
Ukwahlula ukuxhalaba yinto ethi, ngexesha kunye nomonde, inokulungiswa. Inkuthazo enkulu.