Kuhlala kusithiwa inja kunye gato ziintshaba zendalo. Nangona kunjalo, le ayisiyonto iyinkolelo yobuxoki enokusikhokelela ekubeni senze iimpazamo ezinzulu njengokugcina izilwanyana zethu zihlukile kuba nje zindidi ezahlukeneyo. Inyani yile yokuba banokuba abahlobo abangenakwahlulwa, nangona oku kufuneka silandele uthotho lweengcebiso ezinje ngezo ziboniswe ngezantsi.
Ukuqala, isilwanyana ngasinye sifuna indawo yakho esisiseko. Sithetha ngeendawo ezithile zokulala, ukutya, ukudlala, ukuzikhusela, njl njl, ezingafanelanga kutshintshwa kukufika kwesilwanyana esitsha. Ngaphandle koko, omnye okanye omnye unokuziva ngathi indawo yabo ihlaselwe, eya kuthi ikhokelele kungxabano. Kubalulekile ukuba bobabini bagcine izinto zabo kwindawo enye apho behlala bekhona, nangona ixesha lihamba banokwabelana ngalo.
Kukwabalulekile ukuvumela inja kunye nekati baqhelane namavumba abo kwaye uyinxibelelanise nento elungileyo. Ukufezekisa le nto singaqala siphathe enye emva kwenye, ukuze "simithise" ngevumba labo, abanokuqhelana ngalo ngakumbi.
Esinye isitshixo ekuphumezeni ukuhlalisana kakuhle kukusasaza idosi yethu yothando ngokulinganayo, ukunqanda ukubonakala komona. Kufuneka nikela ingqalelo efanayo, ukubonelela nge-caress kunye nemidlalo kuzo zombini. Ukutyeshela enye kuthande enye kuya kubenza babone ummandla wabo usongelwa kwaye basabele kwiingxaki zokuziphatha.
Ukuba into esiyifunayo kukwamkela isilwanyana ekhaya xa sele sinesinye, kufuneka silandele imigaqo ethile. Umzekelo, ixesha lokuqala esidibana nabo kufuneka sikwenze ngendlela elawulwayo, phantsi kweliso lethu, kwaye ukuvumela inja ukufunxa ikati kude. Ngale nto, akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi kunokubamba inja kwi-leash kwaye uyivuze xa ibonisa umoya okhululekileyo kunye nolungileyo.
Ezi zezinye zeengcebiso ezisisiseko esinokuzilandela ngexesha lokuziqhelanisa nezi zilwanyana, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha azonelanga. Ngamanye amaxesha enye yezi zibini ibonakalisa uloyiko olomeleleyo okanye uburharha, kunye nongenelelo lwe ingcali kwi-canine okanye kwi-feline yokuziphatha ukusombulula ingxaki. Ke ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba udibane nengcali xa uthe wabona uphawu lokungqubana kwindawo yezinye izilwanyana zethu.