Ukuba usandula ukuthatha inja ekungekho lula kuyo, kuya kufuneka uyinike uthotho lokhathalelo olukhethekileyo ukuze iphinde ibathembe abantu, okanye ubuncinci kubo. Nangona kancinci kancinci siya sisiya siqonda ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukuphatha izilwanyana ngentlonipho, Ngelishwa kusekho amatyala okuphathwa gadalala okuphawulekayo ukongeza, ekubangeleni ukwenzakala emzimbeni, ikwabangela ukwenzakala ngokwasemphefumlweni.
Amanxeba omzimba aphilisa ngokukhawuleza nangaphantsi, kodwa lawo omphefumlo kunzima ngakumbi ukuwaphilisa kwaye kulula ukuba uboya bube neengxaki kubudlelwane bobomi ngaphandle kokuba banethamsanqa ikhola ezandleni ezilungileyo. Ukuba bekunjalo nomhlobo wakho, funda ufumanise indlela yokuphatha inja ebethwayo.
Inja sisilwanyana ekuhlaleni, ikrelekrele kakhulu ukuba ngamaxesha onke ifuna ukuphepha ungquzulwano. Xa ephantsi koxhatshazo, nokuba loluphi na uhlobo (ukubetha, ukukhwaza, ukulahlwa ekhaya, ...), unexesha elibi KAKHULU. Inye kuphela imeko ebuhlungu ukwenzela yena. Kananjalo, kufuneka uyazi ukuba ukumphatha ngale ndlela akuvumelekanga ngumthetho waseSpain, ozohlwaywa phakathi kweenyanga ezintathu nonyaka omnye ejele.
Mncinci kakhulu kumonakalo omkhulu, ewe, kodwa eSpain yonke into enxulumene nobulungisa bezilwanyana ihamba kancinci xa ithelekiswa nezinye iindawo, ezinjengeMelika, apho inja engcungcuthekisa umntu wagwetywa iminyaka engama 99 ejele. Kodwa asizukuthetha ngobulungisa bezilwanyana, kodwa ngenja ephethwe gadalala, unganceda njani.
Yintoni ekufuneka ndiyenzile ukunceda inja ebethiweyo?
Into yokuqala neyona ibalulekileyo ukuyenza kukuzama yazi imbali yayo. Kumaziko okwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzelanga ibengowakhe, bahlala ngokwazi okanye bengayazi into eyenzekileyo kuye ukuze baphelele kwindawo yokuhlala. Ukwazi uhlobo lokuhlukunyezwa kwabo kuya kukunceda uqonde ngcono indlela abaziphethe ngayo. Umzekelo, ukuba bayambetha, uya koyika kakhulu xa ebona induku yomtshayelo okanye imophu, okanye xa umwola ngengalo ngenjongo yokumthambisa.
Mphathe ngothando kodwa ngokuqinileyo. Zonke izinja kufuneka zikwazi ukuthemba umntu, kwaye umntu lowo kufuneka azolile. Kuya kufuneka ubakhokele, iqabane labo, usapho. Musa ukumenza umntu, ungamthobisi ngokungathi ulusana kuba ukuba uyamphulula xa enethuba elibi -into oza kuyazi ukuba uyabona ukuba uyangcangcazela, iindlebe zakhe zibuyile, okanye uthobekile. isikhundla- oko uboya buya kukuqonda kukuba kulungile ukuziva unje, yile nto kanye esingayifuniyo.
Thetha naye ngelizwi eliphantsi. Yiba mnandi kuye. Kungenzeka ukuba akaqondi kakuhle yonke into ofuna ukuyithetha kuye, kodwa xa emamele ilizwi lakho elithambileyo, elonwabileyo, kancinci kancinci uyakuqonda ukuba akukho nto yenzekayo, ukuba akasayi kuphinda asokole, utshintshile indlu kunye nendalo, kwaye ngoku sele eqale ubomi obutsha. Mnike ukuphatha rhoqo ukuze azi ukuba angakuthemba.
Izinto UNGENZI
Inja eye yaphathwa gadalala yinja eye yalimala. Ukuze abuyele kubomi obuqhelekileyo (okanye aqale ukukwenza ukuba khange alifumane elo thuba) kuya kufuneka umfundise ngokungathi besifundisa injana. Ewe, eneneni, obu boya kufuneka buqale ekuqaleni, oku kuthetha ukuba kukho izinto ezininzi zokuphepha ukuzenza, zezi zilandelayo:
- Ukuhamba ngesiquphe nangobundlobongela: xa uhlamba okanye ucoca nge-mop, isilwanyana sinokuziva singakhuselekanga kunye / okanye esoyikeka, ke kuyacetyiswa ukushiya kwigumbi elizimeleyo elinamathoyizi kunye nomnyango ovulekileyo. Ke ungaya apho nanini na uziva unovalo.
Ukongeza, uhlala ufuna ukubamba okanye ukumbamba, kuya kufuneka uyenze ngobunono. - Nyanzela wenze intoNgaphandle kokuba ubomi bakhe busemngciphekweni (umzekelo, ebehlafuna iintambo kwaye ukuze akhuseleke uya kumthabatha umfuduse), awusoze umnyanzele ukuba enze into angayifuniyo. Kuya kufuneka umfundise, ewe, kodwa ungamoyisi, ngakumbi kwiiveki zokuqala azichitha nawe.
- Mthabathe uhambo kwaye umqhawule: inja ephethwe gadalala ayiqhelekanga ukuba ihambe kakuhle xa inxibile. Ukuba awunamonde kuye kwaye awumfundisi ngembeko nangempatho kwaye hayi ngejezi, kulula kuye ukuba oyike zombini leash kwaye abe ungaphandle.
- Ukuqesha iinkonzo zomqeqeshi ongasebenzi kakuhle: ukukunceda unokufuna uncedo kunye neengcebiso zomqeqeshi, ngakumbi ukuba uyoyika kakhulu izinja kunye / okanye abantu. Musa ukuqesha umphathi wokuqala odibana naye- inja yakho inokuba neziphumo ezibi. Kuya kufuneka usoloko uzazisa kakuhle ngeendlela ezisebenzisayo. Ngumsebenzi olungileyo kuphela osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo, oko kukuthi, ukuhlonipha isilwanyana esiphambi kwakhe, oya kuba nakho ukukunceda.
Inokwenzeka into yokuba kuya kuthatha iiveki ezininzi okanye iinyanga ukuba uphinde ubuye, kodwa uya kubona ukuba wonke umsebenzi wakho uza kuhlawula ekugqibeleni. 🙂