Uma wamukele inja futhi sekuvele kuyingxenye yomndeni wakho, siyakuhalalisela! Usanda kuvumela ekhaya lakho ukugcwala kothando nokwethembeka. Kodwa-ke, lapho isilwane siza nezibopho ezithile okufanele uzifeze nezidingayo okufanele uzinakekele.
Ukuba nenja kusho nokuthi uzivumelanisa ngendlela efanele nomphakathi wakho, ngakho-ke kufanele bamfundise ukuthi aziphathe ngendlela efanele futhi ajwayele imvelo yakhe ngendlela efanele.
Uma ungenalo ulwazi nezinja, nayi eminye imithetho yegolide okufanele uyilandele ukuze ukwazi ukuhlangana kahle nazo!
Amathiphu nezeluleko lapho unenja
Isekele
Inja yakho ngeke iphile impilo yonke futhi kuyiqiniso elidabukisayo ukuthi into enhle kangaka ichitha isikhathi esincane kangaka ngakithi. Ngakho-ke, yiba ngaphandle kwemibandela futhi ube lapho kuye ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoba uzokhombisa ukuzinikela okufanayo kuwe. Khumbula ukuthi inja yakho izohlala ikudinga, ngoba uwena kuphela umuntu anaye, ngenkathi ungaba nomndeni wakho, abangane nomlingani wakho.
Khombisa uthando, ukukhuleka, nenhlonipho
Njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, inja ngeke ibe nenani elifanayo labantu nezinsiza onazo. Ngenkathi ungaba nomsebenzi wakho wobungcweti, izifundo zakho, imibuthano yabangani nomndeni nothando ubudlelwano, inja inayo wena kuphela futhi okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Ngakho-ke, mnike lonke uthando nokuzinikela akunikeza kona, ngoba kumfanele lokhu nokuningi.
Hamba futhi uvivinye umzimba nsuku zonke
Inja, njengathi, idinga ukulungiswa komzimba, ngoba kufanele iqinise futhi yelule imisipha, amathambo nemisipha.
Vele, inja ayidingi ukuya ejimini, kepha ungayisiza ukuzivocavoca umzimba. Uma uhambahamba noma ugijima, thatha inja yakho uzobona inkampani enhle kakhulu engaba khona lapho uzivocavoca umzimba. Ngokunjalo, uma ungeyena umthandi wempilo yokuqina, vele uthathe uhambo lokuhambela inja yakho.
Ake ngizihlanganise nabantu
Njengathi, inja ingumuntu ophilayo futhi uma ungayivumeli ukuthi ihlangane nezinye izilwane kusukela isencane, izokhula ibe nesithukuthezi, igcinwe futhi yesabe indawo ezungezile. Ungamvumeli ahlanganyele nabanye abantu, kepha nezinye izinja.
Thola ipaki yenja eduze kwakho uthathe inja yakho, ukuze ikwazi ukudlala nokuzijabulisa nezinye izilwane zezinhlobo zayo
Dlala nenja yakho
Izinja ziyadlala ngendlela eyisimanga futhi noma yisiphi isikhathi kuzo zilungele umdlalo.
Uma eza kuwe ukuthi uzodlala, ungamlahli, ngoba lokhu kuzobuphula ubuhlobo bakho naye. Ngokufanayo, zama ukudlala nenja yakho nsuku zonke bese udlala nezinye izinja. Inja ayidingi imidlalo enzima kakhulu, ngoba ithoyizi elilula elifana nebhola noma induku lingaguqula intambama eyisicefe ibe usuku lwemidlalo emangalisayo kuye.
Ungazehlisi
Abanikazi abaningi behlisa isithunzi ngakho konke okuhle noma okubi okwenziwa yizinja zabo, ngakho-ke bakujwayela kabi bese beqala ukwenza noma yini abayifunayo, becabanga ukuthi abanikazi bazo bazobalandela. Fundisa inja yakho ukuthi kunemithetho nokuthi kufanele iziphathe ngendlela ethile.
Phakathi kwalaba ababili kumele kube nokuhloniphana
Thola okokusebenza okudingekayo kwe-
Izinja, njengathi, zidinga izixhobo zokuhlangabezana nezidingo zazo. Thola indawo azolala kuyo, iziqukathi lapho angadla khona aphuze namanzi, nendawo yokumgezela. Futhi, yenza inja yakho ibe namathoyizi ayo, ngoba yize ikwazi ukudlala nezingane, amagciwane ashiya umlomo wenja angaba yingozi kuzo.