Noma usafuna ukubona inja yakho njenge ilungu lomndeni ngokwawo futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi ukholelwe ukuthi kungaba nodlame, iqiniso ukuthi awukwazi ukubikezela uzosabela kanjani ezimweni ezintsha futhi lokho inja enomlingiswa omubi Kuzojwayela ukusabela ngolaka kusongo, kungakhathalekile ukuthi lunjani.
Inja bangafuna ukuvikela indawo yabo, vikela imidlwane yakho futhi vele uzivikele. Ukusongela abanye njalo kuyindlela enhle yokuzama gcina ukuthula nokukhawulela ukuxhumana kwezenhlalo.
Izici zobungozi uma sinenja enolaka
Kunezinto ezinobungozi bathembele kakhulu enjeni kunasemvelweni. Isilwane sizoba yingozi kakhulu futhi sibe nolaka ngokwengeziwe ngokushiwo.
- Usayizi wayo
- Iminyaka yakho
- Umlando wakhe wokuziphatha
- Izinga lakho lobudlova
- Ukubikezela
- Ukukhetha kwakho imigomo
- Izimbangela zokuhlukumezeka
- Impilo yakho
Leli phuzu lokugcina libalulekile, kusukela lapha kufanele usebenze ngokubambisana nodokotela wezilwane wakho.
Mhlawumbe inja yakho inolaka ngenxa yabathile isimo sezokwelapha noma ubuhlungu, ngakho-ke ukugwema lezi zinhlobo zokuphazamiseka, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuthi inja yakho ilandelwe inyanga nenyanga ngudokotela wezilwane. Kufanele wazi futhi ukuthi eminye imithi ingenza inja uzizwe uthukuthele futhi ngenxa yalokho bathambekele kakhulu ekuhlaseleni ngisho nasezingeni ukudla okuthile zingathinta ukuziphatha kwakho.
Ngaphambi Funa izixazululoBheka izimbangela, noma ngabe zihlobene nempilo yengane yakho noma indlela eziphatha ngayo, ngoba ukugula okungalashwa kungasheshe kubhebhetheke.
Ingabe kukhona izinhlobo ezinolaka kakhulu kunezinye?
Ezinye izifundo zithole ukuthi ezinye izinhlobo zezinja zinamathuba amaningi okuthi ukuluma nokuhlasela kubantu kunabanye futhi kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu.
Esinye salezi zizathu ukuthi izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zezinja bake basetshenziselwa imisebenzi ethile ngabesilisa. Ezinye izinja babesetshenziswa njengabaqaphi bendlu ngokuthambekela kwabo kokuvikela, abanye njengabangane abazingelayo, abanye wabamba iqhaza ekulweni kwezinja futhi ekugcineni, ezinye izinhlobo ziyaqina futhi ziyadlala. Yize izinja zalezi zinhlobo zivame ukufeza le misebenzi yasekuqaleni, gcina i-DNA yokhokho babo ufuzo.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, akulungile ukwahlulela inja ngohlobo lwayo, ngoba kunezici ezingcono kakhulu ezikhombisa isimo sengqondo sokulwa.
Isibonelo, ungafunda eyakhe uhlamvu lomuntu siqu nomlando ukuxhumana nabantu nezinye izilwane futhi ukuthi umjaho noma inhlanganisela yezinhlanga, akwenzelwanga wena noma indlela yakho yokuphila. Indlela enhle yokugwema ukwamukelwa kwenja enolaka ukhetha isilwane esivele sinomlando (ngokwesibonelo, inja yokukhosela) nokusijabulisa ngokufanelekile kusukela ebusheni.
Ingabe kukhona ukwelashwa okusebenzayo kwenja enolaka?
Umbuzo omkhulu we abanikazi bezinja abanolaka ngukuthi uma kukhona isixazululo esingakwazi "ukunakekela" inja yakho.
Abanye amasu wokuguqula indlela yokuziphatha kungathinta izinga lokuhlukunyezwa kwenja futhi yize namuhla kungenzeka ukunciphisa isibalo nobuningi bezehlakalo futhi nokuziqeda ngokuphelele, kepha asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi inja izokwelashwa ngo-100% yemikhuba yabo emibi.
Ezimweni eziningi, okuwukuphela kwekhambi ukuthi ukunciphisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwenja nezwe langaphandleNoma inja iziphathe kahle iminyaka, akunakwenzeka ukubikezela ukuthi maelstrom yezici ezahlukahlukene izokwenzeka nini futhi idale ukusabela ngolaka. Izinja ezinomlando wokuziphatha okunodlame ekuphenduleni isimo esicindezelayo zizohlala zikwazi ukubuyela kuso, ngaphandle kokuqeqeshwa.
Abanikazi kumele babe qaphelas futhi uhlale ucabanga ukuthi inja ayelapheki ngokuphelele, ukuze ugweme ukwehlisa ukuqapha kwakho futhi ukhumbule ukuthi uzenzela wena njengabanye kanye nenja uqobo.