Angikwazi ukucabanga ukuthi noma iyiphi inja iphika ithuba lokulala nomnikazi wayo, kepha kwabanye babanikazi kunzima ukujwayela ukulala nezilwane ezifuyiwe, ngokunye kulula kakhulu ukulala umbhede nezinja.
Kodwa-ke, asinayo impendulo yombuzo onjalo futhi empeleni ngumbuzo owodwa isinqumo sakho Futhi uma ukhetha ukulala nawe, kufanele wazi ukuthi kuzoba ngempilo yesilwane esifuywayo, ngoba kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukuthatha ubuqili obunjalo enjeni.
Kodwa ingabe inja yami ingalala nami?
Olunye ucwaningo lukhombisile ukuthi lezo zinja ezijabulela ilungelo lokulala embhedeni nabanikazi bazo, bangabonisa izinkinga ekuziphatheni kwabo, badidanise ubukhosi babo emndenini futhi babe yizilwane ezingalawuleki nezidelelayo.
Empeleni akukubi ukuthi balala nathi, umbuzo uthi sibafundisa kanjani nokuthi yini esivumela ukuba bayenze.
Ngokuya ngokuthi ifundiswa kanjani, izokwethula ezinye isimilo esinolaka nokunye ukuziphatha okubangelwa yizinja ezilala embhedeni, njengokuvikela umuntu alala naye noma umuntu ezinobudlelwano obungcono naye lapho elele nomlingani wakhe. Lapho lokhu kuziphatha kwenzeka kubalulekile ukuzisusa ngokushesha ngoba ziyisici senja evelele.
Kumele sikhumbule ukuthi inja ingumlingani wethu hhayi isitha sethu, ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukulala nayo, kungani? Phela kuyisinqumo somuntu ngamunye.
Kungani izilwane zethu ezifuywayo zikhetha umbhede wethu kunezabo?
Umbhede wakho mhlawumbe ukhululekile kakhulu, futhi kukunikeza injabulo yokuba seduze nomnikazi wawo futhi ngenkathi yasebusika, ngokungangabazeki ufudumele.
Kepha uma ungafuni ukuthi isilwane sakho silale nawe, udinga ukuqinisekisa ukuthi inja inombhede omuhle nokuthi kuseduze ngangokunokwenzeka kuwe nokuthi ukwazi ukubalalisa embhedeni wakho, ngesikhathi lapho isilwane siyidlwane kubaluleke kakhulu ukugwema ukuzikhulisa embhedeni nakusofa.
Izinja njengezingane badinga imithethoKodwa-ke, futhi bangabokuqala ukuwaphula.
Kodwa-ke, abanye ochwepheshe bayakuqokomisa lokho kungcono ukuvumela izinja zethu zilale nathi ngemuva kokuba sebekhulile, ngoba lapho besebancane kakhulu bathambekele ekuxakaneni kakhulu futhi bachame noma kuphi, ngaphezu kwalokho bangaluma noma yini abayithola embhedeni ngenxa yokukhula kwamazinyo abo, ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukugwema inhlekelele Igumbi nasembhedeni wakho, okuhle ukuthi ugweme ukulala kulo ngenkathi kuyidlwane.
Manje kubalulekile ukuthi sikhulume nge imithetho okufanele siyibeke ezinjeni zethu uma kwenzeka sikuvumela ukuba ulale nathi.
Inja kumele ibe nokuziphatha okuhle embhedeni, uma sikhuluma ngezinja ezisakhula noma ezindala, kubalulekile ukubavumela isikhala sabo kepha ubazise ukuthi kumele baziphathe kahle lapho besembhedeni. Kuyadingeka ukugwema ukuthi inja imba emcamelweni noma kumatilasi noma kwezinye izikhathi ihlafune imicamelo, uma kwenzeka inja yephula le mithetho kufanele ube negunya elikhulu futhi kwaziwe ukuthi ilungelo lokukwazi ukulala embhedeni lilahlekile.
Uma usanda kuthola inja yabantu abadala noma eyeve eshumini nambili, kuyadingeka ukuthi ulinde amasonto ambalwa ngaphambi kokuyivumela ukuba igibele embhedeni, noma ngabe ikhombisa ukuziphatha kahle, ngoba ifinyelela endaweni entsha futhi kufanele uyivumele ivumelane nayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi kudaleke ubudlelwane obuzinzile phakathi kwenja nomnikazi ngaphambi kokuvumela noma yiziphi izinzuzo ekhaya njengokungena embhedeni noma ngisho nakusofa.
Sawubona! Okuthunyelwe okuthakazelisa kakhulu. Ngingomunye walabo futhi abakholelwa ukuthi kufanele uzisungule kahle izindawo zokulala, ngoba uma belala endaweni eyodwa njalo ebusuku, sizodida izilwane zethu futhi ekugcineni kwesinye isikhathi siyabathukuthelela lapho labo abanecala abanikazi. Ngikufisela okuhle!