Ukuhlolwa kwamuva kubonise lokho izinja bezinomona ngomnikazi lapho yena uqobo ebona irobhothi eliyinja, elalingakhonkotha futhi linikine umsila. Lokhu kuhlolwa okuthile kwakususelwa kokunye lapho kukhombisa khona lokho izingane nazo zazinomona ngabazali bazo lapho bathatha unodoli ukuyinikeza uthando nokunakekela.
Abaphenyi abacabangi ukuthi la macala womabili angaqhathaniswa nomona wabantu abadala kepha angaba yisandulela sokuziphatha okufanayo.
Izifundo Ezikhombisa Izinja Zingaba Nomona
Kwesinye isifundo sangaphambilini, abanikazi bezinja bacelwa ukuba bakwenze. Ngakho-ke lapho abanikazi benaka futhi bethanda omunye umuntu noma isilwane, izinja kubangele isimilo lapho bacela ukunakwa, bephusha umuntu ngomzimba wabo, bekhonkotha, bekhotha kanti ezinye izinja bezinolaka ngandlela thile phambi kwalolo daba lokunakwa, ngakho-ke ngenxa yalolu hlobo lokuphendula abantu bavame ukukholelwa ukuthi inja ingazizwa inomona.
Ngakho-ke singasho ukuthi izinja nazo zihlakulele isimilo sokuziphatha njengomntwana.
Ngokuyisisekelo, umona yi amandla wokuqhathanisa izenzo ezimbili phakathi kwabantu noma izinto Futhi noma ngabe sikhuluma ngesilingo esishiwo ngenhla, kungenzeka ukuthi inja ithole ukuthi into umnikazi wayo ayinikeze uthando kuyirobhothi noma ithoyizi futhi ikholelwa ukuthi bayasangana.
Manje uma umuntu enekhono lokuzwa umona, kanjalo nekhono lokuthola phakathi kwamafomu angaphili nalawo aphilayo. Impela? Isibonelo, lapho sikhuluma ngezingane ezidlala ibhola nabazali bazo, bakhombisa ukujabula okukhulu ngalo msebenzi, mhlawumbe kunjalo izizathu ezifanayo ezibangela injabulo ezinjeni zethu lapho ufuna ibhola. Siyazi ukuthi kunemizwelo ekhona ezinjeni nasebantwini, kepha kusobala ukuthi ukudlala ibhola phakathi kukababa nendodana kuhluke kakhulu ekudlaleni ibhola nenja, kepha imizwa efanayo kakhulu ingazwakaliswa.
Uyini umehluko wokuba nomona phakathi kwezinja nabantu?
Impendulo enengqondo kunazo zonke kungaba unembeza futhi yize sikwazi ukwabelana ngezinto ezithile nezinja, njengokuthinta komzimba noma ukuqonda amanye amagama, kukhona ibhuloho elikhulu elihlukanisayo, njengelethu ikhono lolimi, okuyikho okusinika ikhono lokuxhumana okuyisici sabantu kuphela.
Wake waqaphela ukuthi uma umuntu enomona ujwayele ukuveza umhawu wakhe ngamazwi? Nokuthi bayikhombisa ngaphandle kwenkinga? Yebo, uma ukubonile lokhu, kungenxa ye- ikhono lokuveza lowo wesikhwele ngezilimi nokuveza imizwa, ngoba imvamisa sibhekisa emoneni njengempendulo engokomzimba emuzwa wokungazethembi.
Ngakho-ke lapho inja inomuzwa wokuthi ubudlelwano nosizi lwayo bungashintsha, buye buvame ukwenza izimo zengqondo ezibonisa ukungathandi kwabo esimweni esenzekayo. Imvamisa lokhu kwenzeka ngoba inja ikhumbula izinkumbulo ezingezinhle ngokufana nesimo bese uzama ukukuvimba ukuthi kungenzeki futhi.
Sengiphetha, inja ayizizwa inomona ngempela, lokho ekubonisayo empeleni ukusabela emadolweni lapho uzizwa ungavikelekile, njengoba ezwa ukuthi isibopho nomnikazi wakhe sisongelwa.
Nakhu ukuthi singahlola kanjani ukuthi izilwane zisabela ezimweni ezahlukahlukene futhi lapho zibona ukuthi ubudlelwane bazo buyalimala, zibheka indlela yokuheha ukunakekelwa nokuthi yonke into ibuyele enkambisweni yayo ejwayelekile. Futhi ngaphandle kokuthi besivele sikugcizelele lokho izinja azinamonaEsikhundleni salokho, banokuphendula okungokwemvelo, abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi banomona, njengoba isimo sabo sengqondo sifana nengane encane.