Inja ekhonkothayo? Uhlobo luni lokuphambuka lokho! Kusukela nini izinja zikhonkotha? Yini okufanele siyenze ukuxazulula lo musho?
Kufanele sikukhumbule lokho izinja zikhonkotha ngoba kuyindlela yazo yokuxhumana nemvelo yazoNgendlela efanayo lapho sisebenzisa inkulumo, basebenzisa ukukhonkotha. Uma inja yethu ikhonkotha kakhulu, kungenxa yokuthi izama ukusitshela okuthile okufanele sikulalele ngokucophelela ngaphambi kokuba sesabe bese siyijezisa ngento engeke iyiqonde.
Izinja yizilwane ezifuywayo, okusho ukuthi baphucwe indlela yabo yokuphila nemvelo yabo ukuze babe yizilwane ezifuywayo. Khumbula ukuthi, kusukela emvelaphi yabo, ukuhewula nokukhonkotha bekuyinto engokwemvelo emvelweni yabo, nokuthi ukubancisha ukwenza izinto ezithile noma ukwenza ngodlame kungaba yinto engahambelani futhi kusho, ngakithi, ukucasuka nokuqonda okuncane ngesilwane.
Akunasidingo sokusho, noma iyiphi igajethi, efana amakhola alwa namagxolo, udlame lomzimba noma ukungenelela kokuhlinzwa okufana nesigaba sezintambo zezwi zenja, kuphakeme kwalokho esingakubiza ngokuthi ukuhlukunyezwa nokuphathwa kabi, hhayi imfundo.
Uma inja yethu ikhonkotha kakhulu, usuku lonke, futhi sihlanya ngokuphelele, isinyathelo sokuqala ukwehlisa umoya futhi qonda ukuthi kunganiLapho-ke, lapho sesizazi izimbangela, yenza ngokufanele ngendlela ephumelela kakhulu nangendlela efanelekile.
Kungani inja yami ikhonkotha kakhulu?
Ucindezelekile
Kungenzeka ukuthi inja yethu ikhonkotha ngoba thina, abanikazi bayo, asimniki konke akudingayo ukuze ajabule, nokuthi, ngale ndlela, uhlala ekhonkotha ukusenza sikuqonde lokho uzizwa ukuthi kukhona okushodayo.
Ngabe sihlala simthatha sihamba naye ukuze sizikhulule futhi sinciphise ukucindezeleka? Ngabe uthola ukudla kwakho okunconywayo namanzi usuku ngalunye? Ingabe ithola ukunakekelwa okwanele kubanikazi bayo? Ukwehluleka ukuhlangabezana nanoma iziphi zalezi zidingo kungenzeka kuholele ekucindezelekeni okunqwabeleneFuthi lapho inja icindezelekile, ivame ukusebenzisa ukukhonkotha njengendlela yokuphunyuka ukuzikhulula kukho konke ukungezwani kwayo.
Kubuhlungu ukuhlukana nawe
Ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana kungesinye isizathu esenza izinja zikhonkothe kakhulu. Lapho sihamba ekhaya futhi sibashiya bodwaLapho-ke i-orchestra iyaqala: inja yethu ayiyeki ukukhonkotha ngoba ifuna ukuba nathi futhi ayikwazi ukubekezelela isizungu.
Kuleli qophelo kubalulekile ukuzibuza ukuthi ngabe inja yethu ichitha isikhathi esiningi iyodwa ekhaya. Lapho inja ingasebenzisanga amandla ayo futhi ingakatholi ukunakwa okwanele, maningi amathuba okuthi akhonkothe futhi alume yonke into ukuze siqonde ukuthi akajabule, udinga ukunakwa okwengeziwe, futhi uchithe isikhathi esincane wedwa. Uma sichitha isikhathi esiningi ngaphandle, izindawo zokugcina izingane ziyindlela enhle kakhulu.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, masingakhohlwa lokho ukuzitotosa ngokweqile izinja zethu lapho sifika ekhaya kungakhuphula ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana. Inja, lapho iyodwa ekhaya, izohlupheka ngokungakhathali ngokufika kwakho. Into enhle kakhulu ukwenza ngendlela ejwayelekile, ukungabi nephathi, futhi uma sifuna, uma inja isijwayele ukufika kwethu, siyinika ama-caresses ambalwa bese siyitshela ukuthi siyayithanda kakhulu.
Yiba nokwesaba
Izinja eziningi, lapho sizithatha, zingase zihambe nazo ukuhlukumezeka okuningi noma ukwesaba kwezimo ezithile, izinto noma abantu. Lapho sibona ukuthi lokhu kuyenzeka, kufanele sizihlomise ngokubekezela ukuqonda ukuthi ubomvu bethu bukhombisa kuphela ukwesaba kwakhe ngalokho akubona kuyingozi.
Ukuqeda ukwesaba kwenja kungathatha isikhathi esiningi nokuzinikela. Esimweni lapho singazi ukuthi sizokwenza kanjani, okuhle kakhulu kuzoba iya kuchwepheshe ayohlola icala futhi usinikeze imihlahlandlela edingekayo yokwenza uboya bethu buqine futhi bujabule.
Uqeqeshwe kabi
Ngabe simnikeze ukuphatha okuningi noma injabulo njalo lapho ekhonkotha ngoba sicabanga ukuthi uyathandeka? Leli iphutha elijwayelekile kakhulu, inkinga izofika kamuva, lapho inja ikuqonda lokho ukukhonkotha kusinaka ngokuphelele.
Into enengqondo kakhulu ukuvuza inja yethu kuphela lapho yenza okuthile okulungile, njengokuzikhulula ngaphandle, noma ukuziphatha kahle nezinye izinja, abantu nezimo ezithile. Ukuqeqesha kuyinqubo yokufunda okumele ihlale inengqondoAkufanele uqhutshwe ukuzwela kwethu noma isifiso sokubona uboya bethu benza izinto ezithandekayo.
Izinkinga ngendawo
Kubalulekile ukuthi sinake ukuthi inja yethu ikhonkotha kakhulu kuphela uma uzwa kukhala umnyango noma lapho kufika othile. Lezi zinhlobo zengqondo zihlobene nemvelo yakho yokuzivikela. Ngokweqiniso, ukukhonkotha kwakho kufanele kube okufundisayo, ezimbili noma ezintathu zizokwanela, kepha uma ukwenze kaninginingi, kungaba yinkinga ngendawo.
Uma inja yethu ifuna insimu yayo ngokweqile futhi ikhonkothe kakhulu kothile noma okuthile noma kunini lapho iqhamuka khona, kungcono uthathe isinyathelo esiya ngakuye bese uthi leso sikhuthazo singesethu. Zihlomise ngesibindi, nangomoya ozolile, ibeka umkhawulo inja okungafanele yeqe ngawo lapho kufika umuntu noma insimbi ikhala. Sizodinga isikhathi, kepha ngokubekezela nangokuzinikela, uzoqonda ukuthi iqhaza lakho lapho kufika umuntu akulona ukukhonkotha ngokweqile.
Awuhlangani ngokwanele
Ezinja, kubaluleke kakhulu hlangana nezinye izinja nabantu ukuze baqonde kahle ukuthi ababodwa emhlabeni obazungezile. Akukona nje ukuba nabo ekhaya usuku lonke, noma ngabe sinabo, futhi noma ngabe bungakanani ubukhulu babo, inhloso ukubayisa emapaki nezinye izinja nabantu abaningi, noma ezindaweni lapho kunomsindo omkhulu khona kunase ekhaya, lapho bedlula khona amabhayisikili, izimoto nezithuthuthu, njalo kuqhuma kahle. Ngale ndlela, inja izoqonda konke kangcono kakhulu, futhi lapho ifika ekhaya, ngeke ixwayiswe yilowo msindo ongajwayelekile.
Izinkinga zempilo
Ubuhlungu bungadala izinja zethu zikhonkothe kakhulu, yize kuyimbangela engajwayelekile. kufanele sikucabangele. Into enhle ongayenza ukumyisa kudokotela wezilwane ukuze amhlole futhi abone ukuthi la magxolo aphindaphindayo abangelwa yini inkinga yempilo esilwaneni.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma inja yami ikhonkotha kakhulu?
Yebo, uma imbangela isibekiwe, kufanele sixazulule ngempumelelo nangokufanelekile noma yikuphi ukungalingani ngokomzwelo noma inkinga yezempilo ukuze inja izole futhi ilinganise ngokushesha okukhulu.
Isizathu esivame kakhulu senja ekhonkotha kakhulu imvamisa ukucindezela. Akekho ozalwa azi, futhi izinja nazo badinga ukugqoka okujwayelekile nokwenyama ukuzizwa kahle ngabo. Ukubakhiphela kude, ukudlala nabo ngokujikijela ibhola kubo, ukubayisa enkundleni, emfuleni noma ezintabeni ukuhogela nokugijima, imvamisa kuyizisombululo ezishibhile, ezisebenza kakhulu futhi ezinempilo zazo zombili.
Ngokuzikhipha njalo, sizonciphisa kancane kancane ukukhathazeka kwabo, ingcindezi kanye nokwesaba isizungu.
Endabeni ye- inkinga yendawo, ukwesaba noma ukuqeqeshwa okungalungileUma sibona ukuthi asikwazi ukuqondisa kabusha ukuziphatha kwabo esiphethweni esiyimpumelelo ngaphandle kokusebenzisa udlame, kungcono ukubayisa kuchwepheshe ukuze afunde udaba lwabo ngokucophelela.
Masingakhohlwa ukuthi imvamisa imayelana ukuziphatha okuvamile, nokuthi ukukhonkotha okuzenzakalelayo kuyindlela yokuziveza nokuxhumana nemvelo yabo. Kuphela ezimweni lapho ukukhonkotha kudlulele, kufanele sikhathazeke.