Lapho umusha ngokuba nenja, imvamisa senza iphutha elingathi sína lokungazibekeli imingcele esilwaneni sethu, futhi ngokwesibonelo, lokho kusho ukuthi simyeke akhuphuke noma yikuphi futhi simvumele ukuba agibele kithina, okuyisona siphindaphinde isinyathelo sokuqala sokulala ezinyaweni zethu futhi singene phakathi kwamashidi ethu.
Kubaluleke kakhulu kwenze kucace enjeni yethu ukuthi njengoba sinombhede wethu, unowakhe, futhi yilapho kufanele alale khona nsuku zonke.
Vele, uma umbhede wethu unakho konke ukunethezeka futhi sikugcina kuhlanzekile nsuku zonke, izinja zethu akufanele zibe ngaphansi futhi Kumele simtholele umbhede omfanele futhi omvikele emakhazeni.. Kuzobaluleka futhi ukubeka ingubo ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze ungene ngaphansi kwazo ungabandi noma nini.
Kubalulekile ukumfundisa ngalokhu kusuka ngosuku lokuqala futhi ungathathi isinyathelo sokubuyela emuva, ngoba uma uthatha leso sinyathelo emuva futhi ngelinye ilanga umvumele alale embhedeni wakho, kuzoba nzima kakhulu ukumenza alale embhedeni wakhe futhi. .
Okwamanje kunezindawo ezingamakhulu zokukuthengela eyodwa lala inja yakho, nokuthi uzokwazi ukuba nakho konke ukunethezeka akudingayo, kukhona futhi amamodeli ahlukahlukene, anamakhulu emiklamo ezokwazi ukuzivumelanisa kahle, ngokwesibonelo nomhlobiso wegumbi lakho, ngoba into eyodwa ukungavumeli inja yakho ingalali embhedeni wakho, futhi kungenye impela yokumthuma ayolala yedwa ekhishini.
Uma unenja uzokwazi vele nge ukubaluleka kwenja yakho enombhede wayo Futhi uma uzoba nayo kungekudala, kubalulekile ukuthi uzibeke njengenhloso ephambili yokufundisa nokuqinisekisa inja yakho, ukuze ilale embhedeni wayo.