Uthando luyinto enhle, kepha uma lusonga izinja zethu luvame ukukhuthaza abanye 'izinkinga ' ikakhulukazi uma inja yakho ingowesifazane.
Kulabo kini abangakaze babhekane nokushiswa ekhaya, siyazi ukuthi lesi yisikhathi sokuthi kungabiza ukulala ubusuku obumbalwa, kepha inkinga akuyona le kuphela futhi ukuthi maqondana nabanini bezinja zesilisa, 'inkinga' ifingqiwe ekuphatheni isimilo sokukhathazeka, ukuhewula, ukungathandi ukudla, kanye nokumakwa kwendawo, kanye nokuvuza okungenzeka ngemuva kwenja lapho kushisa.
Kuyini ukushisa futhi inja yami izohlala isikhathi eside kangakanani ekushiseni?
Ngubani onenja eshisayo ekhaya, kuzofanele azi ukuthi kuzofanele abhekane nobuso ukulahleka kwegazi kanye nengozi yangempela yokukhulelwa uma icala liphuma esandleni. Inkinga yeqiniso ikhona kuphela uma unenja engathathi hlangothi.
Ukuqhathanisa nomuntu ongumuntu wesifazane, kufanele sikusho lokho ilingana nomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini lokho kuqala ngesikhathi sokuthomba futhi kwenza owesifazane akwazi ukukhulelwa futhi akhulelwe, ngomehluko wokuthi inja yesifazane, ukuthomba kuza ngaphambi kwesikhathi (sikhuluma ngezinyanga esikhundleni seminyaka) nokuthi awukho umkhawulo weminyaka okufanele uqedwe, ngoba ama-bitches ungadluli ukuya esikhathini.
Ukufika kokushisa kokuqala iyahlukahluka kancane kusuka kunondindwa eyodwa kuye kwenye, kuya ngosayizi we-bitch, kanye nesimo sempilo nokudla okunempilo.
Ukuthomba kubonakaliswa ngokunembile emithini ngokuqala kokushisa okufanele kwenzeke phakathi Izinyanga ezi-6-7 zezinja ezincane nezinyanga eziyi-15-18 ngezinja ezinkulu, kepha futhi ubude besikhathi nenombolo yezikhathi ngonyaka zingahluka ngokuya ngosayizi, ngesilinganiso esiphindwe kabili ngonyaka ngezinsuku ezingama-21.
Ngazi kanjani ukuthi unondindwa ungene ekushiseni?
Uzobona ukuvuvukala kwesitho sangasese, okuncane ukopha esithweni sangasese nokuthambekela kokukhotha leyo ndawo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ezingeni lokuziphatha kukhona ukuxokozela nokwenyuka kwesifiso sokuchama.
Uma ungafuni ukuthi inja yakho ibe uzibuthe wabesilisa bomakhelwane, kuzofanela umgcine ekhaya isikhathi sokushisa lokhu.
Uma kudingekile impela ukuhamba emgwaqeni, kufanele uqaphele kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngokuyigcina iphephile, ilawulwa kude nezinja zesilisa. Okufanele kungahambi ngalesi sikhathi Noma ukwenze phakathi kwabantu abaningi ukuze uyivikele ezinjeni zesilisa eziwela indlela yakho futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ucezu lwezeluleko esizokunikeza lona, ukubekezela futhi lokho ama-hormone angadala ukucindezeleka nokwethuka noma ukuthi uba novalo olwedlulele ngesikhathi sokushisa, ngakho-ke wena nomndeni wakho anikwazi ukuziphatha ngokwehlukile, okungukuthi, niziphathe njengokujwayelekile.
Vele, qina ekuphindaphindeni imithetho ebekiwe, kepha ungenzi ihaba ngokusola nangokujezisa kanzima.
Ungayivimba kanjani inja yami ukuthi ingakhulelwa?
Ama-bitches ekushiseni ukuheha abesilisa ngephunga, ngakho-ke akukuhle ukushiya indlu ngalesi sikhathi, kepha indlela yokuzola nokungabi nalezi zinkinga ukuyenza inzalo.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ngemuva kokuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala, isimilo senja yakho kunzima ukusilawula ngaphandle kokulimaza inkululeko yakho noma inqubo yakho, ungahlala ucabanga ngokuhlinzwa, okungukuthi, ukuvimbela inzalo.
Ama-bitched neutered ngaphambi kokushisa kokuqala bathambekele ekubeni nempilo ende futhi baba nezingozi ezingaphansi kakhulu zezempilo, ngaphezu kokunciphisa kakhulu ubungozi bezifo emgodini wesibeletho futhi ikakhulu, umdlavuza webele nowesizalo.