Kwezinye izikhathi siphoqelekile ukwenza njalo nika ibhodlela eminye imidlwane osanda kuzalwa. Kungenzeka ukuthi umama wabo uyabalahla noma ngenxa yokuthi bamane babalahla ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, okuyinto eseyiqiniso elidabukisayo nanamuhla. Esimweni esinjalo, kufanele sazi okufanele sikwenze nokuthi yini okungafanele siyenze, ukuze imidlwane ikhule iqinile futhi iphilile.
Ukuzondla ngebhodlela akuvamile ukuba nzima, kepha kufanele wazi imininingwane ethile, njengokuthi yini ubisi kufanele unikeze, ngoba ayifanele noma iyiphi noma leyo enikezwa izingane. Izinja noma amakati anezidingo ezahlukene zokudla okunempilo okumele zimbozwe ngomkhiqizo ofanele.
Into yokuqala okufanele siyenze usazise mayelana nalolo lwazi sidingani. Ikakhulukazi ibhodlela elinengono encane, ethokomele imidlwane. Imvamisa banezinyathelo eziningana zokuvumela ubisi oluningi noma oluncane ludlule, futhi singalawula njengoba sibona. Ubisi luza ngohlobo lwempuphu, futhi kufanele luxutshwe namanzi asebhodleleni bese kufudunyezwa, ukuze kunikezwe lapho kufudumele.
Kukhona izinja ezingadli kahle ezinye zidla kangcono. Ngokuvamile, bayabona lapho besuthi, kepha uma ungabaza, bheka kangcono ukuthi ungabanika malini ngosayizi wabo nokuthi banesikhathi esingakanani. Ngokomthetho bayadla njalo emahoreni amabili Inani elincane, futhi njengoba bedla kakhulu njengoba bekhula babekhipha lokho kudla kakhulu. Into enzima ngalesi sikhathi ukuya kuzo njalo emahoreni amabili, ngoba kudinga ukuthi umuntu abe sekhaya njalo.
Ngemuva kokubanika ibhodlela kumele zikhulule. Umama wabo uyabakhotha ukuze abenze, kepha uma ingekho le nja noma enye ukuba ngumhlengikazi, singasebenzisa izesuli ezimanzi futhi sigcobhoze leyo ndawo ukuzikhulula, ngoba empeleni abajwayele ukukwenza bodwa futhi kunzima yabo.