Ngaba uceba ukwamkela inja encinci? Ukuba kunjalo, ngaphambi kokwenza nantoni na kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ucinge nzulu malunga nokuba ungayikhathalela okanye hayi. Nangona sisilwanyana esingazukuba nzima kuwe ukuba usiqeqeshe ukuba uyenza ngokubonisa intlonipho kwaye unomonde omkhulu ngayo, inyani kukuba ngamanye amaxesha izinto zinokwenzeka ezothusa usapho olutsha.
Ngesi sizathu, sifuna ukukunika uthotho lwe iingcebiso malunga nokwamkela izinja ezincinci ukuzama ukuthintela ezo ziganeko zingalindelwanga ukuba zivele, ngaloo ndlela kuqinisekiswe ukuba ukuhlala kunye kulungile ukusuka kusuku lokuqala.
Sukuyithatha inja yokuqala oyithandayo (okanye ethandwa ngumntwana wakho)
Oku akunakuba kukuthanda kwakho, kodwa ngoku uya kusiqonda isizathu sokuba nditsho: inja ayisiyonyani. Ayisiyo into enokubuyiselwa kuyo ngokulula. Ungumntu ophilayo, oneemvakalelo, kwaye kuncinci ukutshintsha kwendlu kuye, kokukhona uya kuncipha Ukuyigodusa kwaye emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa ibuye kuba itsala kakhulu kwi-leash, ikhonkotha imini yonke okanye ayiziphathi ngaphandle kokucela uncedo kumqeqeshi wezinja osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo, kungcono ungayamkeli.
Ukongeza, kuya kufuneka ucinge ukuba ungaphila ngokugqibeleleyo iminyaka engama-20. Kukho iimeko ezichazwe kwi-Intanethi zezinja ezigqithile kwi-30. Ngalo lonke elo xesha uyakufuna uthando, ingqalelo, kunye nosapho olukhathalele ngokwenene ngaye.
Buza nayiphi na imibuzo onayo ngaphambi kokuba uyamkele
Uninzi lweengxaki luya kusonjululwa ukuba umntu owamkele umntwana lowo angabuza ngembali yesilwanyana afuna ukusamkela. Ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ubuze kuye yonke intoUmzekelo, kutheni esegumbini lokuhlala, unjani umlinganiswa wakhe, ukuba uyagula kwaye, ukuba kunjalo, luphi unyango, ...
Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ngaphambi kokuba uye kwindawo yokuhlala ubhale yonke imibuzo ofuna ukuyibuza. Ewe kunjalo, emva kweseshoni yemibuzo neempendulo, cela ukuchitha ixesha kunye nenja yodwa. Mthathe ukhe ujikeleze izibonelelo, unxibelelane naye.
Lungisa yonke into ngaphambi kokuba uye nayo ekhaya
Nje ukuba uthathe isigqibo ngenja ethile kwaye kubonakala ngathi, ewe, yile nja uyikhangelayo, lixesha lokuba uye kwivenkile yezilwanyana ukuze uthenge yonke into oyifunayo: ibhedi, isondli kunye nomntu oselayo, ukutya kwenja okungenazinkozo, i-leash, ihashe kunye nekhola, kunye nezinto zokudlala
Nje ukuba kuthengwe, ungaya kufuna umntu oza kuba lilungu elitsha losapho lwakho ukusuka kumzuzu wokuqala osayina ikhontrakthi yokwamkelwa komntwana kwaye bakunika irekhodi labo lokugonywa.
Thatha uhambe ngayo
Xa ushiya indawo yokuhlala izilwanyana, mhlawumbi uya kufuna ukuya ekhaya uyokutya ngokwanga. Kodwa ... kuyacetyiswa ukuba ufike endlwini uzolile, kwaye akukho nto injengokuhambahamba ujikeleze ubumelwane. A) Ewe, nina nobabini niyakucoca kwaye niziva ngcono. Ewe, niyakwazana, into engalunganga kwaphela.
Ukongeza, uya kufuna ukuzikhulula ngokwakhe, esiya kuba sisizathu esifanelekileyo sokumenza aqonde ukuba kulungile kuye ukuba azikhulule esitalatweni hayi ngaphakathi. Ewe kubalulekile: kufuneka ususe ilindle ngengxowa oza kuyilahla kumgqomo wenkunkuma, kwaye kunyanzelekile ukuba uthathe ibhotile yokutshiza ngamanzi kunye neviniga encinci ukuze umchamo ungashiyi ibala okanye ivumba xa lisomileyo (kwaye, ngecala, ukuthintela ezinye izinja ekuchameni kuloo ndawo).
Konwabele ukuba kunye nabo
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, lixesha lokonwabela inkampani yabo. Mse ekhaya kwaye makayihlole. Ngokuqinisekileyo ayizukuthatha ixesha elide ukuba uzive ulilungu losapho lwakho olutsha.
Siyathemba ukuba iluncedo kuwe 🙂.