Amehlo ayisipili somphefumlo. Ngabo, sinokubonisa iimvakalelo zethu, into esincedayo ukunxibelelana nabanye. Izinja zinokukwenza nazo, kwaye eneneni, ziyinxalenye ebaluleke kakhulu yomzimba wakho.
Xa sithatha isigqibo sokuhlala nenja, kufuneka sithathe ixesha lokuqonda ulwimi lwayo. Ke masibone indlela yokutolika ukubonakala kwenja yam.
Ukujonga
Xa enye inja ijonge enye kungenxa yokuba iza kuhlasela. Kukhangeleka ngathi ezi zilwanyana zibamba kuphela xa zinesizathu sokulwa (imazi xa kushushu, indawo, ukutya, into yokudlala okanye ubomi bayo). Ngokwesiqhelo, inja iyakubonisa ukubola, iinwele zangasemva ezinomqolo, kwaye inokugquma.
Kuphephe ukudibana nabantu ngamehlo
Kwiimeko ezinzima, njengaxa inja isiza komnye oneentloni okanye engazithembanga, le yokugqibela iyakuphepha ukumjonga. Ngale ndlela, umxelela ukuba awufuni ngxabano kwaye ufuna ukuba ahambe.
Uya kuphendula ngale ndlela ukuba awuzange ube nethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungahlala kwindlu okuyo Ukuphathwa kakubi, nditsho nasemva kokufumana usapho olulungileyo
Mamela
Siza kwazi ukuba inja imamele na xa amehlo ayo evulekile. Banokuba neendlebe zabo zibekwe phezulu, umlomo wabo uvalwe ngokupheleleyo okanye uvuleke kancinci, kwaye bakulungele ukusebenza Umzekelo, izakuvela ngoluhlobo lonke ixesha siza kuphosa ibhola oyithandayo, okanye ngaphambi kokuba uphume uhambe.
Ufuna ukudlala
Ukuba iyaqhwanyaza iya kuba isixelela ukuba ifuna ukudlala. Kwaye ukuba sinokuthandabuza, sinokukuqinisekisa ukuba siyambona egobile, ebuya umva kancinci, eyolule imilenze yakhe yangaphambili, kwaye evule nomlomo kancinci. Ngamanye amaxesha iya kukhonkotha. Iya kuba mfutshane, iphakame kakhulu, igcobe kakhulu.
Ukwazi oku, siya kuba nakho ukunxibelelana ngcono nomhlobo wethu othandekayo.