Inja sisilwanyana eso ukukhonkotha ukunxibelelana. Enkosi ngokukhonkotha, ungabonisa uvuyo nolonwabo, kodwa kunye nentlungu, usizi kunye nokungonwabi. Ukuba sifuna ukukhonkotha kuphela kwiimeko ezithile, kuya kufuneka siyithathele ingqalelo le nto: le ndlela yokuziphatha ayinakupheliswa.
Ke ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungayinqanda njani inja ukuba ingakhonkxi, Kuya kufuneka uyazi kuqala ukuba kutheni isenza kwaye iyinjongo. Ngale ndlela, ungathatha amanyathelo afanelekileyo.
kutheni izinja zikhonkotha?
Izinja zikhonkotha ngezizathu ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo:
- Xa benesithukuthezi kwaye / okanye bekruqukile: abo bachitha usuku bodwa emakhaya bengenanto yokwenza, okanye abo bachitha ubomi babo bebotshelelwe ngetyathanga, bakhonkotha usapho lwabo ukuba lubahoye.
- Xa befuna umntu (inja, ikati kunye / okanye umntu) ukuba ahambe: ukuba abanayo ekuhlaleni ngokuchanekileyo, abayi kuyazi indlela yokuziphatha okanye ezinye izilwanyana ziya kusabela njani, ukuze kuthintelwe iingxaki ezizikhonkothayo.
- Xa baziva bonwabe kakhulu: Kungenxa yokuba bayokuhamba uhambo, batye into abayithandayo (umzekelo, banako, okanye ngenxa yokuba umntu wabo ubuya emva komsebenzi, ngamanye amaxesha bonwabile kangangokuba abanakukwazi ukukhonkotha.
Ungazivumela njani ukuba zikhonkothe?
Ukuba sifuna bayeke ukukhonkotha, into yokuqala ekufuneka siyenzile kukufumanisa unobangela, kuba ngokuxhomekeke kuyo kuyakufuneka senze ezinye izinto okanye ezinye. Ke sinezinja ezichitha ixesha elininzi zodwa, Kuya kufuneka sibakhuphe babethwe ngumoya, sidlale nabo kwaye, ngamafutshane, sibakhathalele. Ukuba asikwazi, nangasiphi na isizathu, esona sisombululo sisiso iya kuba kukufumana usapho olutsha kubo, ukuba kunokwenzeka ngoncedo loMkhuseli. Ingavakala ikhohlakele, kodwa inja ifuna ukuhoywa, ifuna inkathalo, ifuna ukuthandwa. Ukuba asikwazi ukukunikezela ngale nto, masingabi neenja.
Kwimeko apho zikhonkotha ngenxa yokuba zingakhange zihlalisane, eyona nto icetyiswayo kukucela uncedo kumqeqeshi wezinja osebenza ngokuqinisekileyo; Oko kukuthi, ngamabhaso. Kwaye ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kukuba babe novalo kakhulu kwaye bonwabe xa beyokwenza into abayithandayo, isisombululo kukubafulathela de bade bazole.
Izinja zikhonkotha, ngathi ziikati meow kwaye abantu bayathetha. Njengabakhathaleli babo, kufuneka sibamamele kwaye sibanike ingqwalaselo ebafaneleyo.