Ukuba ungumthandi wenja njengathi, usete injongo yakho kunyaka olandelayo ubakhathalele ngakumbi kwaye ubaphathe ngokufanelekileyo, Ukongeza kwezinye iinjongo ezininzi zobomi bakho.
Ukuzama ukonwaba kancinci, lahla ezo kilos zongezelelekileyo kwaye ube nomzimba omncinci, ngaba ezo njongo ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu kuthi ukuzizalisekisa, kodwa ngezinja zakho ozithandayo ungazibekela iinjongo ekuza kuba lula ukuziphumeza kwaye zona baya konwaba ukuba baya kugqithisela kuwe ngothando lwabo kunye nothando.
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Zondle izinja zakho kakuhle
Imfuno zemihla ngemihla zisenza ukuba silibale ngeenkcukacha ezithile ezibalulekileyo ukuba inja yakho ikwimo entle. Amaxesha amaninzi, ixesha esilichitha kude nekhaya lithetha ukuba asinalo ixesha lokuya kwivenkile abathengisa kuyo olona mgangatho uphezulu kunye nokutya okusempilweni yinja yethu esiyithandayo.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kuya kufuneka uphakamise ukuba ufumane loo mzuzu ngemini ukuze ubenakho ukufumana Ndicinga ukuba kungcono ngenja yakho. Umgangatho olungileyo wesondlo unokutshintsha ubomi bakhoNgenxa yokuba izinto ezingcono ekutyeni onazo, kokukhona amalungu kunye nemisebenzi ebalulekileyo iya kuphuhla.
Ukutya okungalunganga kunokukuzisela iingxaki zezintso okokuqala, kuba kamva zinefuthe kumgangatho webhatyi yazo kwaye zizisa nezinye iingxaki ukuba awunqweneli isithandwa sakho esinoboya. Njengengcebiso sikuxelela ukuba ujonge izimvo ezahlukeneyo ezenziweyo kwi-intanethi malunga neemveliso ezahlukeneyo ukondla inja yakho, ukuze ufumane leyo ibonisiweyo ukuze izive ingcono kakhulu kwaye iyonwabele impilo.
Chitha ixesha elingakumbi kubo
Kungenzeka ukuba izinja zakho zinomgcini othembekileyo kwaye uziva ukuba zihlala nazo, zichitha ixesha ngelixa uxakekile okanye uxakeke zezinye iimbophelelo kwaye oku kuyinyani. Kodwa inja yakho iya kuhlala ikulindile kwaye lonke uthando onokumnika lona kwaye uya kuhlala efuna ukuba nguwe ophosa ibhola kuye, obaleka naye kwaye umnike lonke uthando onokuthi umnike lona.
Kwenze usukelo ukuzama ukubeka amaxesha akho e-ajenda emiselwe ukuba ube nenja yakho oyithandayo, ukuze ngalo mzuzu kungabikho hlobo lokuzibophelela okanye olunye uhlobo lokuphazamiseka ekusa kwenye indawo kwaye ungaba naye, ukumthatha ahambe epakini, adlale kwaye amnike lonke uthando olumfaneleyo.
Bonisa wonke umntu owaziyo ngobuhle bokwamkela
La ukwamkelwa ngokufanelekileyo kwesilwanyana Enye yezinto ezintle kakhulu ezinokuthi zenzeke kuwe. Iindawo zokufihla izilwanyana zizele zizinja zilinde umntu ukuba azamkele. Kuya kwanela nje ukuba usondele kwenye yezi kwaye ubone indlela bonke ubuso babo bahle boya busondela kuwe, Ndikucela ukuba ubathathe, ubanike lonke uthando olubafaneleyo kwaye bakulinde kwaye bakwamkele ngolonwabo olukhulu xa ufika ekhaya udiniwe ngumsebenzi.
Zama ukufundisa wonke umntu owaziyo malunga nokubaluleka kokuthatha inja, endaweni yokufumana izinja ezizalisayo ngexabiso eliphezulu. Ngokubanzi, bafumana uhlobo oluthile lokuxhatshazwa kwaye abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho banokubenza bonwabe kakhulu.
Zama ukubonisa abantu obathandayo onke amakhaya onawo kufutshane kwaye unxibelelane nabo, ukuze endaweni yokuthenga inja yamkele kwaye ubenze balibale loo mizuzu imbi, yokudlula kwilizwe lokuthoba, ukhathalelo kunye nolonwabo, abaya kukubulela ngothando oluninzi.
Khuthaza inzalo
Sonke singathanda ukubona izinja zethu zineenjana ezintle, kodwa kwangaxeshanye kufuneka sicinge ukuba inani elikhulu leenjana esinokuzibona emakhaya okanye ezitalatweni, ngaphandle kokhathalelo kwaye zitya intsalela ukusuka apho zinokufumana khona, inento yokwenza nokungabikho kwenzalo.
Inani leenjana ezizalwayo zizalisa izixeko ngezinja ngakumbi kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba zininzi kakhulu izinja kunabantu abazimisele ukuzinyamekela. Ukusuka kwindawo yakho ungaqala ngokucoca izinja zakho, Kwaye emva koko uxelele zonke izalamane zakho malunga nokubaluleka kokungabi nayo imidlwane ngenxa yokuzala okukhulu.
Ngale ndlela uya kuba unegalelo eluntwini, kuba awuzukwenza izinja zibe sempilweni engcono kuphela, kodwa uyakuthintela konke ukuzalwa okungafunekiyo, okuhlala kufikelela kwelona xesha lifanelekileyo, ngezo zinja zigcinwe ezindlwini nakwezona meko zizinja ezizula ezitratweni ngaphandle kwenjongo, ukondleka kakuhle kwaye ngenxa yoko impilo enkenenkene.
Yiba nomdla kumanyathelo okuqala omanyano
Kanye njengoko ucebisa unyaka apho unika khona ukubaluleka kwimpilo yezilwanyana zasekhaya, baninzi abantu ekudala beyenza loo nto, Beza kubumba imibutho yesisa kunye namaziko ezinja agxothiweyo kwaye afuna ukhathalelo olukhulu.
Le ntshukumo yomanyano ifuna, phakathi kwezinye izinto, igalelo lemali, ke Unokukhangela ezi zinto zinikezelwe kukhuseleko lwezilwanyana kwaye wenze igalelo onakho ukuze iinjana nezinye izilwanyana zifaneleke. Thatha inxaxheba kwiminyhadala ngeenjongo zesisa abazenzayo kunye negalelo ukusuka apho unakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha ungangabinayo imali, kodwa uthathe inxaxheba kule mibutho yobumbano, uzimisele ukubakhona kwaye uququzelele le micimbi, ukukhuthaza uncedo kuluntu, kuyakwanela kwaye Uya kuba wenza okuhle kuzo zonke izilwanyana esixekweni sakho.
Fundisa malunga nokuhlonipha izilwanyana
Imfundo malunga intlonipho, uthando kunye nenkathalo ekufuneka siyinike izilwanyana zasekhaya Kuyinto ekhethekileyo yokuqonda, ngakumbi ukuba wonke umntu ayiqonde ukususela ebuntwaneni.
Kungenxa yoko le nto, ukuba uthatha ixesha eliyimfuneko, kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu ukuba ufundise abantwana bakho, abatshana bakho nabo bonke abantwana obaziyo, ngokubaluleka kokukhathalela izinja kunye banike lonke uthando olubafaneleyo, ngaphandle kokucalucalula okanye ukuphazamisa kubo.
Zininzi iindawo zokusasaza amanyathelo ekufuneka elandelwe kunyango olufanelekileyo lwezilwanyana, apho unokufumana khona izimvo zokufundisa ngayo. Zama ukuzalisekisa ezi njongo kwaye uya kuziva ungcono ebomini, ukukhathalela aba bantu basithandayo njengoko sibathandayo.