Amagxolo zezinye zezona zizathu zarhoqo zeempikiswano phakathi kwabamelwane. Kwaye kukuba xa besiva umhlaba wabo osongelwayo, izinja zihlala zikhupha uthotho lwe ukukhonkotha Ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukulumkisa abanokungena kubukho bakho. Nangona oku kuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwezi zilwanyana kwaye kuhlala kungadluli kwimizuzu embalwa, inqanaba lokunyamezelana labamelwane bethu alisoloko lisengqiqweni.
Ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka ukuba siziphephe ezi ngxaki, kodwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo kuya kuba lula kakhulu ukuba siyakwazi ukufundisa isilwanyana sethu ukuba sisabele ngokuthe cwaka xa kudlula abamelwane kufutshane nomnyango wethu. Sikunika amanye amaqhinga ngayo.
Hayi kwisikhalazo kunye nezohlwayo
Eyona nto imbi esinokuyenza ukuyizolisa inja yethu kukuyikhwaza okanye siyithethise, kuba oku kuyonyusa nje imithambo-luvo kwaye kuyenze ikhonkothe ngakumbi. Kungenxa yoko le nto kungcono ukuba sisabele ngokuzolileyo, ngaphandle kokuphulukana nokuphola kwakho kodwa ukwenza ngokuqinileyo. Ayisiyombono intle ukuyinqanda inja ngenkani, kuba ngale ndlela siya komeleza uxinzelelo lwayo. Ewe, isohlwayo ngokwasemzimbeni asinto yakwenza kwaphela.
Thatha uxanduva kwimeko
Eyona ndlela isebenzayo kukwenza ukuba isilwanyana sibone ukuba sithi ekufuneka sijongane nayo le meko. Akululanga, ngakumbi ukuba inja yethu inovalo. Kufuneka sibonise ukuzola okukhulu, sizibeka phambi komnyango senze ukuba omncinci asuke kuwo. Nje ukuba inja ithule, siyakwenza umqondiso ukuba inja iyakwazi ukubona lula; umzekelo, ukubonisa intende yesandla sakho.
Siza kuhlala kule ndawo de kuphele ingxolo, oko kukuthi, ade ahambe ummelwane. Emva koko siya kuqhubeka nomsebenzi ebesikade siwenza ngaphandle kokuthetha nantoni na. Ngale ndlela, inja iya kukuqonda oko sinoxanduva lokukhusela ikhaya xa ujongene nezisongelo kwaye awuyi kubona kufanelekile ukuba uzikhusele. Kancinci kancinci uya kuqonda de ukukhonkotha kuyeke ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo
Olunye uluvo olulungileyo kukwenza isilwanyana sidibanise ingxolo yabamelwane kunye nenkuthazo elungileyo. Sinokwenza umthambo ofana nalowo uchazwe apha ngasentla kodwa ukwazisa iilekese okanye amashwamshwam, Esiza kuyinika inja xa ihamba isuka emnyango iyeke ukukhonkotha. Elinye iqhinga kukumkhuthaza ukuba aye ebhedini yakho okanye kwindawo yokuphumla xa kudlula abamelwane, kwaye umnike intwana yokutya apho.
Yonke le nkqubo ithatha ixesha kunye nomonde. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kuye kufuneke ukuba ubhenele kwi umqeqeshi oqeqeshiweyo. Kufanelekile ukuphepha iingxabano ezicaphukisayo nabamelwane bethu.
Kwaye kutheni inja yam ingakwazi ukukhonkotha kwaye kutheni abamelwane bengenakukhala, babeke umabonwakude phezulu okanye abantwana babo bakhale? Inja yam iyakhala ngokungathi iyakhala okanye abantwana bakho bayakhala, isenzo esinye soluntu kwaye nabani na okhathazwayo uhlala kwinduli ekwanti. Iinkathazo zoluntu zezomntu wonke, hayi izinja kuphela.