Nangona kuyinyani ukuba akufuneki sivumele isimilo esithile kwinja yethu, kufuneka siyamkele loo nto mkhuze ngendlela eyiyo ayingomsebenzi olula okanye omnandi. Kuya kufuneka sifumane ixesha elifanelekileyo layo, sisebenzise ilizwi eliqinileyo kodwa elithambileyo, kwaye ke, ungaze ubhenele ukohlwaya ngokwasemzimbeni. Ezi zizitshixo ze thetha inja ngokuchanekileyo.
Kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba ukungxolisa inja kubandakanya balungise indlela abaziphethe ngayo, ngekhe umohlwaye ngenjongo yokumenza "abonakalise." Ezi ziindlela kunokuba zisebenze ebantwini, ngelixa izinja zifunda ngolunye uhlobo lwemfundo. Kwimeko yabo, ukohlwaywa kwenza izinto zibe mandundu kwaye zingalungelelanisi ngokwasemoyeni.
Kubaqalayo, akukho senzo sokukhalimela inja kwiiyure emva kokuba iziphethe gwenxa. Ngale ndlela awazi nxulumanisa indlela esisabela ngayo nezenzo zabo, ke sinokudala ukudideka kwimfundo yakho. Ukuba, umzekelo, siyamthethisa xa esonwaba nenye yeithoyi zakhe ngento embi ayenzileyo ngaphambili, isilwanyana singadibanisa into yakhe yokudlala namava amabi kwaye singaphindi sisondele kuye.
Kwelinye icala, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba ukulwa akufani nokukhwaza okanye ukuba nomsindo. Ubungakanani boqeqesho kufuneka luqine kodwa luzolile, kungenjalo siza kudala ukungakhuseleki kunye noloyiko kwinja yethu. Ngokufanelekileyo, kuya kufuneka sisebenzise amagama ambalwa: "hayi" elula okanye "yima" iya kwanela. Injongo kukudibanisa eli gama nento engalunganga.
Emva kwesi sikhalazo, kuya kufuneka bonisa inja ukuba yenzeni, njengemo yokulungisa. Umzekelo, ukuba simfumene ehlafuna esinye sezihlangu zethu, kufuneka "simthethise" ngokufutshane emva koko simbonise iithoyi anokudlala ngazo.
Njengoko besesitshilo ngaphambili, ukubethwa kunye nokukhala kuyakhutshwa ngokupheleleyo. Nathi simele senjenjalo kuphephe ukuzahlula njengesohlwayo. Mhlawumbi ukuvalela inja yethu okwethutyana kubonakala ngathi ngumbono olungileyo, kodwa inyani kukuba oku kunokubangela ukudideka kunye nosizi.
Okokugqibela, siya kuyidinga idosi elungileyo yomonde ukulungisa isimilo esibi senja yethu. Ukuba senza ngentlonipho, ngokuzola nangothando, siya kuba nakho ukufundisa isilwanyana sakho ngaphandle kokonakalisa ukuzithemba kwaso okanye ukusenzakalisa konke konke.