Noma kunjalo ukukhathazeka Ungomunye wemikhuba ephawuleka kakhulu yezinja, namanje akwaziwa ukuthi yini ngempela ebashayela ukuthi benze kanjalo. Kunemibono eminingi esiyitholayo maqondana nalokhu, futhi ibhekisa ezicini ezahlukahlukene: kungaba kusuka ekubonisweni kothando kuze kube uphawu lwenkinga yokuziphatha. Nazi izizathu ezinhlanu zalezi.
1. Thola ukunakwa. Kwesinye isikhathi izinja zisebenzisa le ndlela ukufuna ukunakwa ngabaninizo. Bangadinga uthando, ukuhamba noma basitshele ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokudla. Lesi sakamuva sibuyela emqondweni waso oyinhloko, ngoba lapho umdlwane ulambile ukhotha impumulo kanina ukufuna izinsalela zokudla.
2. Khombisa uthando. Lezi zilwane ziveza uthando lwazo ngokuzikhotha, ngakho-ke zivamise ukukwenza ngenkathi siziphulula. Kuyisignali yezenhlalo ebaluleke kakhulu kubo, kanye nesenzo esivame kakhulu sobungani. Imvamisa bakhetha ukukhotha ubuso nezandla zabaninizo.
3. Dlulisa ukwethembeka, ukuzithoba nokubusa. Izinja ziyakwazi khotha thina ukuveza imizwa ethile. Isibonelo, kwesinye isikhathi basibingelela ngale ndlela, bakhombisa ukujabula ngokusibona. Ngezinye izikhathi bakwenza njengesibonakaliso sokuhambisa, noma ngabe bekhotha ngokweqile kungaba futhi wuphawu lokulawula.
4. Ukukwazi. Izinja zibona inani elikhulu lolwazi ngokunambitha. Futhi, lokhu kubhekisa kumzwelo wemvelo wabo, njengoba okhokho babo izimpisi zikhotha imilomo yezinye izizukulwane ukubheka ukudla okuseduze. Ukunambitheka komuntu, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kumnikeza imininingwane ngempilo yakhe nesimo sakhe sengqondo.
5. Ngokukhathazeka. Uma inja ihlala ikhotha thina noma izinto ezisondelene nayo, mhlawumbe uphawu lwenkinga yokukhathazeka. Lokhu singakuxazulula ngokwandisa isikhathi sakho sokuzivocavoca ngosizo lwamathoyizi, noma kwesinye isikhathi kuyadingeka ukuphendukela kuthisha oqeqeshiwe.