Ngenkathi abanye bekhetha ukuthi izinja zabo lala Kanye nabo, abanye bakubona kulula kakhulu ukuthi ngamunye wabo abe nombhede wakhe. Zombili lezi zinketho zisebenza ngokulinganayo, ngoba uma isilwane sicacile ukuthi kufanele sihloniphe indawo yethu, akukho kulokhu okumele kuthinte kabi imfundo yaso. Kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi kunzima ukujwayela isilwane sethu lala wedwa. Sikunikeza amanye amathiphu wokuxazulula le nkinga.
Isinyathelo sokuqala sokwenza lokhu ukwenza isimo indawo ekhethekile lapho inja ingaphumula khona. Kufanele ibe ntofontofo futhi ithambe, ihlukaniswe namakhaza nokushisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kulula ukuthi kube yikhoneni elithulile, elinethrafikhi encane nalapho umsindo ungadluli khona. Kwesinye isikhathi kuyinja uqobo ekhetha indawo ethile yendlu; uma kunjalo, kungcono ukubeka umbhede wakho lapho ngezingubo ezimbalwa namathoyizi akho.
Lapho isilwane sethu sesikhethe indawo esiyithandayo ukusiphumuza, kufanele hlonipha isikhala sakho, ukugwema ukumphazamisa njalo uma ekulo. Ngakho-ke uzoyihlobanisa nendawo yokuphumula nokuthula, lapho uzozizwa ukhululekile ukulala khona. Singakugcizelela futhi lokhu kuhlangana okuhle ngokuthi inja ilale embhedeni wayo bese imvuza ngokuthokozisa.
Kubalulekile ukuthi asime siqine. Njalo lapho isilwane sigibela embhedeni wethu, kuzodingeka ukuthi sehlise bese siyisa endaweni yaso yokuphumula. Cishe, uzophikelela futhi akhale ngisho nokufeza inhloso yakhe, kepha asikwazi ukunikezela. Kufanele sibekezele futhi simfundise kaninginingi ukuthi silale kuphi, ngaso sonke isikhathi ngobumnene futhi sisebenzisa ukuqiniswa okuhle.
Le nqubo izoba lula kakhulu uma inja ihambisana nayo amashejuli athile. Ochwepheshe bancoma ukungamvumeli alale isikhathi eside emini, kanye nokumnikeza umthamo wokuzivocavoca umzimba odingekayo ukuze aqede amandla akhe amaningi. Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi udle isidlo sakusihlwa okungenani amahora amabili ngaphambi kokulala, ukugwema ukugayeka okunzima.