Lahla inja yethu Kulahlekelwa yilungu elilodwa lomndeni wethu, nakho konke lokhu okubandakanya. Kuyisimo esinzima nesibuhlungu, nokulahlekelwa okukhulu ngokomzwelo kithina. Siyaphoqeleka ukuthi siqale inqubo enzima lapho kufanele sizijwayeze ukuhlala ngaphandle komunye wabathandekayo bethu. Yize ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka, singasinqoba lesi simo.
Ubuhlungu esibuzwayo ngemuva ukufa kwenja yethu Kungaba kakhulu noma kube namandla kunalokho okusingenelayo ngemuva kokulahlekelwa yinoma ubani osizungezile. Kungenxa yalokho inqubo yokufanisa iyafana, ehlanganisa cishe izigaba ezifanayo, kusukela ekwenqabeni ekwamukelweni. Singaze sizizwe sinecala. Konke lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi ngokuya ngezimbangela zokufa.
Okokuqala, futhi njengoba kwenzeka ngemuva kwanoma isiphi isigameko esibuhlungu esingahle sehlele, kufanele sinikeze isikhathi sokukhala futhi siveze ubuhlungu bethu; kuphela lapho singayikhulula khona. Kubalulekile ukwamukela kokubili nakwabanye ukuthi sidabukile nokuthi sizokhumbula inja yethu. Into enhle kakhulu ukuthi sikhipha imindeni yethu nabangane, nokuthi singalokothi siyicindezele imizwa yethu.
Abanye basebenzisa ezinye izindlela zokukhuluma njengokwelapha. Isibonelo, singakwazi bhalela isilwane sethu incwadi ukuvalelisa, izinkondlo, yenza izingoma ngezithombe zakho, uhlele amavidiyo, njll. Konke kuvumelekile ukuveza imizwa yethu. Lokhu ngeke kwenze ubuhlungu buphele, kodwa kuzosisiza ukuthi samukele isimo esisha futhi sibhekane naso.
Hlela umkhosi wokuvalelisa Kungasizuzisa nakulokhu. Singahlela izinketho ezahlukahlukene, sizikhombe kulokho esikubona kufanele kakhulu. Kuyisinqumo somuntu siqu, lapho kunezinye izindlela ezihlukile. Kukhona, isibonelo, amathuna ezilwane ezifuywayo, esivumela ukuthi sibavakashele noma kunini lapho sifuna khona.
Ngemuva kwakho konke lokhu kuqala isigaba esinzima sokwamukela inqubo entsha ngaphandle kwenja yethu, evame ukuhambisana nayo umuzwa onamandla wokucindezeleka. Kujwayelekile, sisanda kulahlekelwa okungalungiseki futhi, njengoba sazi, isibopho phakathi komuntu nenja yakhe siqine ngokweqile. Kuzosisiza ukukhuluma nabantu ababhekene nesimo esifanayo; Ku-Intanethi sithola amakhasi amaningi e-web azinikele ekubandakanyeni lolu hlobo lwengxoxo nabanye abasebenzisi.
Kuzosisiza futhi gcina imikhuba ethile isikhathi esithile, njengokuhamba ngezindawo ezifanayo nangezikhathi ezifanayo esasihamba ngazo nenja yethu. Kancane kancane sizobe sesikulungele ukufaka ezinye zalezi zinqubo esikhundleni sazo.
Singazizwa sinesidingo esiphuthumayo faka enye inja empilweni yethu Ukugcwalisa isikhala sethu esingokomzwelo Futhi yize kuliqiniso ukuthi akufanele sivumele izinhlungu zisenze sidele izilwane ezifuywayo zesikhathi esizayo, kuyiqiniso futhi ukuthi isilwane ngasinye asinakubuyiselwa endaweni, nokuthi kufanelekile ukunqoba usizi ngaphambi kokucabanga ukuhlala nesinye isilwane. Ngaphandle kwalokho umonakalo wengqondo ungaba mkhulu kakhulu.
Akufanele sizisole thina ngokuzwa ubuhlungu, noma noma buqala ukuphela. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi imizwa engemihle izohlala ingemuva, ithathelwe indawo ngu izinkumbulo ezijabulisayo enkampanini yenja yethu. Induduzo enhle ukucabanga ukuthi senze isilwane sazizwa sithandwa futhi sijabule ngakithi, ukuthi sijabulele impilo enhle.
Uma siqaphela ukuthi isikhathi asibuphilisi ubuhlungu bethu, unganqikazi thola uchwepheshe Sisize. Kujwayelekile futhi kunengqondo ngokuphelele ukuya ekubonisaneni nodokotela wezengqondo ngemuva kokufa kwesilwane, ngakho-ke akufanele sibe namahloni. Into ebalulekile ukuthola indlela yokunqoba ukulahlekelwa bese uqhubeka.