Uhamba ngokuthula nenja yakho, kuthi kungazelelwe ubone ukudonsa okubukhali kuleleash. Ngaphambi kokuthi wenze noma yini, inja yakho isivele idla okungafanele. Yini okufanele uyenze kuleli cala? Enye yezinto okufanele yenziwe qhubeka uzolile, futhi umsuse lapho ngokumbonisa umuthi wezinja ezinuka kakhulu - kulapho ziba ngcono kakhulu - futhi umnike zona uma uziqhelelanisile ngemitha noma ngokuncane kulokho »ukudla». Noma kunjalo, inhloso kungaba ukugwema ukulindela ukugwema ukugwinywa.
Lezi zilwane zinomuzwa othuthuke kakhulu kunethu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukwazi ungayivimba kanjani inja yami ekudleni indlenjengoba impilo yakho ingaba sengcupheni.
Uma unenja, njengami, ethanda ukudla cishe yonke into emgwaqweni, ngeke ibe khona enye indlela ngaphandle kwalokho qaphela kakhulu kunalokho esinakho phambi kwethu. Kufanele sibe ngabokuqala ukubona noma yini, kufaka phakathi indle, umngane wethu angafuna ukuyifaka emlonyeni wakhe ukuze sibe nesikhathi esanele sokumzungeza, noma sithathe enye indlela uma sifisa.
Kepha-ke, ngeke kwanele ukulindela, kepha futhi kufanele sihlale sithwala isikhwama esiphatha ukuphatha inja. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi banuka kakhulu, ngoba ngale ndlela kuzoba lula ukuthi inja ikhangwe kakhulu kubo hhayi kakhulu endle. Singamnika ubhekeni noma i-salami, kepha kungakuhle kakhulu ukuthi simnikeze ukuphatha okwenzelwe izinja ikakhulukazi, ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi sizodinga isikhathi eside ukumenza ayeke ukudla indle, namasoseji akufanele ahlukunyezwe.
Ungayivimbela kanjani inja ekudleni indle? Kulula impela kunalokho okuzwakalayo: njalo lapho sibona eyodwa, sizokhipha umuthi, sikubeke phambi kwekhala lenja, futhi ngeke sikuhambise size sifike kude ngokwanele nesihlalo. Kamuva, Sizokunikeza yona.
Enye inketho hamba uziphathe ngesandla bese uklomelisa isilwane. Kuzodingeka ukuphinda kaningi, kepha ekugcineni kuzokuyeka ukukwenza 🙂.