Uma kunokuziphatha kwenja yethu okudonsela ukunaka okuningi kwabaningi bethu, kuyikho kanye ukukhotha, kwesinye isikhathi okubizwa ngokuthi "ukwanga" noma "ukwanga kwezinja" yilabo abathanda lezi zilwane. Kepha, Wake wazibuza ukuthi kungani izinja zikhotha abantu zikhotha?
Yize bekwenza ngoba besithanda, kunezinye izizathu engizokutshela zona ngezansi.
Ulimi lomzimba lwezinja lilinganiselwe, ngoba azikwazi ukukhuluma njengathi. Ngakho-ke, kufanele bakwazi ukuveza lokho abakuzwayo ngezindlebe zabo, amehlo, umlomo (ulimi namazinyo), nangomzimba wabo, bekwamukela ukuma okuhlukile. Ukubheka lokhu, siyazi ukuthi:
- Lapho benazo ukwesabaAbakwenzayo ukwehliswa imisila nezindlebe, futhi bakhothe nezifinyila zomlomo.
- Lapho benazo indlala, bavula imilomo yabo ngenkathi bekhotha izifaca zabo ngokweqile, ikakhulukazi uma sebevele bekubonile noma bekunukile ukudla kwabo.
- Lapho zikhona wethukile kakhulu noma ukhathazekile, bazikhotha ngokweqile.
- Lapho befuna aphumele ngaphandleNgaphezu kokujabula kakhulu, bangakhotha noma bakhothe ubuso bakho.
- Nini bayahlanza nazo ziyakhotha, njengoba nje umama enza ngazo lapho ziseyimidlwane.
- Lapho befuna thola uthando olwengeziwe, ngokunokwenzeka uzokhotha isandla sakho ukukutshela ukuthi uqhubeke umphulula.
- Lapho zikhona ukwenza ucwaningoAbasebenzisi imilenze yabo kuphela, kepha nomlomo wabo ukuthola eminye imininingwane.
Ingabe kufanele sivumele inja ikhothe ubuso bethu? Yebo, kuya kakhulu ngokuthi uyangithanda noma cha ukuthi ngikunike "ukuqabula." Noma kunjalo, akufanele neze umvumele akwenze uma egula / sigula / noma uma edle okuthile okungafanele akwenze, ngoba ngaphandle kokuzifuna singamthelela, noma ukuthi uyasithelela. Kepha uma kokubili isilwane kanye nomuntu bephilile, asikho isizathu sokuthi kungani ingakwazi ukuthola "ukwanga" kusuka kunoboya 🙂.