Sivame ukuzwa ibinzana elithi "kudingeka nje sikhulume" ngokubhekisele ezifuyweni zethu, ikakhulukazi izinja. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi izinja zikwazi ukuxhumana njengabantu, kuphela zikwenza zisebenzisa i- ulimi kwehlukile. Ukunyakaza komzimba futhi kunjalo, ukukhonkotha, yakha ingxenye eyisisekelo yalo.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, kufanele sivume ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi kunzima ukuhumusha ukuthi inja yethu izama ukuxhumana nathi. Kuzoba lula kithina uma sazi i- izinhlobo ezahlukene zokukhonkotha futhi sifunda "ukuwahumusha". Nazi ezinye zazo:
1. Ukukhonkotha kwezwe. Inja evikela indawo yayo ngokuqhubekayo ikhonkotha kakhulu, iba yimbi kakhulu njengoba isengozini enkulu. Lokhu kungaholela ekuphenduleni okunolaka.
2. Amagxolo okwesaba. Yinde futhi ibukhali, ifana nokuhewula, futhi imvamisa ihambisana nezinyathelo ezimbalwa emuva.
3. Ukukhonkotha ukudlala. Icijile futhi iphindaphindeka, imvamisa siyibona eceleni kwesimo somzimba esiqinile nesishubile. Kufana nokukhonkotha ngenxa yezinzwa noma ukukhathazeka, ngoba umdlalo uvame ukudala le mizwa enjeni.
4. Amagxolo Esililo. Kuvamile ezinjeni ezihlushwa ukukhathazeka ngokwehlukana. Iqukethe uchungechunge lwezikhonkwane ezinkulu eziba phezulu, ekugcineni ziphenduke uhlobo lokuhewula okude, okuzwisa usizi.
5. Amagxolo okusongela. Yigxolo elikhulu, elibukhali, elisheshayo neliphikelelayo, okukhombisa ukuthi isilwane sizimisele ukusabela ngolaka uma sisondela kakhulu.
6. Ukukhonkotha kwenjabulo. Lokhu kufushane, kuyaphindeka futhi kubukhali, futhi kuvame ukuhambisana nokugxuma futhi kuziphendukele. Cishe luhlobo lwamaxolo esikhonjiswa yinja yethu lapho singena emnyango.
Asikwazi ukukhohlwa, futhi, ukububula, nokunikeza imininingwane ebalulekile mayelana nomoya wesilwane sethu. Isibonelo, ukubhonga okuphansi kungaba yisixwayiso sosongo, kuyilapho ukubhonga okulandelwa amagxolo aphezulu kubonisa ukungazethembi. Ukugquma okuthambile, nokho, kuyisibonakaliso sokuphumula nenjabulo.