Njalo lapho abezindaba bathatha izihloko zezindaba ezisikhombisa iqiniso elingathandeki: izinja zilokhu ziluma abantu. Lapho ufunda lezi zindaba, abantu abaningi basola ngokushesha lezo ezinoboya, hhayi ngeze, yibo abenze umonakalo. Ngokwenza njalo, benza iphutha elibi kakhulu, ngoba izinja zihlasela kuphela lapho zisongelwa.
Ukube besikubheka lokhu, kungenzeka siqale ukubona lezi zilwane ukuthi ziyini ngempela: abangane abafanele nabangane banoma ngubani, abadinga ukuthi sizifundise uchungechunge lwezinto ezizokwazi ukuhlala emphakathini, ngendlela efanayo ukuthi abazali benza nezingane zabo. Ukuze, ake sazi ukuthi singayivimbela kanjani inja yami ekulungeni.
Hlanganyela kahle
Inja, ephakathi kwezinyanga ezimbili kuya kwezintathu, idlula esikhathini lapho Kumele abe nokuxhumana nezinye izinja, amakati, nabantu bazo zonke izinhlobo ukuze kusasa azizwe ekhululekile uma enabo. Ngalesi sizathu, ngokushesha nje lapho bemupha umuthi wokugoma wokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu ukumkhipha umoya - ngaso sonke isikhathi ezindaweni ezihlanzekile - ukuze akwazi ukuxhumana nezinye izilwane.
Myeke ahlale nawe
Izinja ezichitha usuku engadini noma kuvulandi yizilwane ezisheshe zikhungatheke, zibe nesithukuthezi esikhulu futhi zicindezeleke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umndeni ungachithi isikhathi nabo ekugcineni okuzokwenzeka ukuthi, ngokushesha njengoba besikulindele, bayaluma. Ukukugwema, kulula ukubavumela babe yingxenye yomndeni, ngaphandle kwalokho umqondo omuhle bekungaba ukungabi nenja.
Fundisa izingane ukuhlonipha inja
Uma unezingane, noma endlini yakho kunezingane, kulula ukubafundisa ukuthi bahloniphe i- inja idinga. Kumele futhi batshelwe ukuthi kunezinto eziningi abangakwazi ukuzenza kuye, njengokudonsa umsila wakhe noma ukufaka iminwe emehlweni akhe. Ngamunye wabo (kungaba yinja, noma kungaba izingane), udinga isikhala sakho siqu ukuze uhlonishwe futhi ngenxa yalokhu akudingeki ubashiye bodwa noma nini.
Mthathe ayothena
Inja ebilokhu ikhona wathenwa, okungukuthi, izindlala zokuzala zisusiwe, kuyinto enoboya leyo kuzojwayela ukuthula kakhulu ukwedlula yonke "ephelele", ngoba kuzoba kuncane kakhulu indawo futhi kube nothando.
Ngalezi zeluleko, umngani wakho uqinisekile ukuthi ngeke akulume.