Yize ubumpumputhe boboya bethu bungabonakala njengesithiyo sokukwazi ukuxhumana naye, empeleni isimilo sethu kuye asikho isidingo sokushintsha cishe noma yini. Kufanele sikubeke emqondweni ukuthi, yebo, ngeke sikwazi ukusebenzisa ulimi lokukhuluma ukukhuluma nawe, kepha kunezinye izindlela zokudlulisa imiyalezo kuwe ngokusebenzisa ulimi lomzimba.
Ngakho-ke, uma inja yakho itholwe inohlobo oluthile lokungezwa, sizokunikeza uchungechunge lwamathiphu ukuze wazi ukuxhumana kanjani nenja yami eyisithulu.
Into yokuqala okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi ukukhubazeka okukuphela kwenja yakho yisithulu, kodwa akukho okunye, okungukuthi, angakubona futhi akunuke, okungaphezu kokwanele ukuze uqhubeke nokujabulela ubungane obuhle kakhulu. Ubungani okufanele bukhuliswe nsuku zonke, ngama-caress, ngokubukeka okumnandi, ngemidlalo futhi, nakanjani nemiklomelo esezingeni lokudla.
Uma ufuna ukumqeqesha, sebenzisa ukukhuluma komzimba wakho. Isibonelo, ukumcela ukuthi athule, ungaphakamisa isandla sakho ngeminwe usondelene kube sengathi ufuna itekisi noma ibhasi. Noma ungakhomba umunwe phansi uma ufuna ukuthi alale phansi ngenkathi uqondisa ukuphathwa kwe-doggie phansi. Ungasebenzisa futhi ukukhanya ngesikhathi esithile.
Ukugwema isimilo esibi, kungcono ukungakunaki. Kuyaziwa ukuthi isimilo esingavuzwa sivame ukunyamalala sodwa. Vele, uma kuyingozi, unganqikazi ukucela usizo kumqeqeshi osebenza kahle.
Ukuze uphephe wena nezinye izinja, Kunconywa kakhulu ukuthi uyigqoke njalo ngehhanisi nangebhande, kungenjalo impilo yakho ingaba sengozini kungekudala noma kamuva.
Ngalezi zeluleko, ubudlelwano noboya bakho obuyisithulu buzoqhubeka buhle kini nobabili